Need to vent some steam...

V-Man339 said:
I ****ing hate every selection of musice you've listed there, and I do talk to my parents about this sort of thing quite a lot.
If I may voice my opinion, you haven't the slightest idea on who I am or what I am...
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If you do decide to talk to them, you can bring up the point that you've already attempted to talk to them and that it's their responsibility, as parents, to discipline their seemingly spoiled 9 year old child.

You can help, of course, by being tolerant of your sister's attitude in the meantime. Like Harij said, lock yourself in your room and don't let your sister put an unecessary amount of stress in your life.
 
There are no locks in my house (other than the bathroom which I would get in trouble for locking myself in there) and there's annoying and violent dogs in the next door neighboor's house. I have nowhere to go, why the hell do you think I browse these kinds of forums?
 
Hahaha, I remember what it was like to be younger (way younger) and be like, "I can't walk down that street, there are dogs!"
 
V-Man339 said:
There are no locks in my house (other than the bathroom which I would get in trouble for locking myself in there) and there's annoying and violent dogs in the next door neighboor's house. I have nowhere to go, why the hell do you think I browse these kinds of forums?
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So what's your solution to the problem? What would you do, having read our (serious) advice to your problem?
 
v-man: i never said i did.. you blow meaningless details out of proportion. get your hormones in check, we all know you're never as certain of how life works when your a teenager, your gonna realise how unimportant your issues are later on, until then, show your vicinity some respect by having your angst bursts in private. throw on whatever music you like, play some cs, anything really. do something constructive with your anger.
 
jebus someone needs a ****ing beating and it's not the sister

damn
 
Make fun of her until she is crying. Tell her she is fat and has no friends, thats why shes following you all the time and being annoying, just so she can get some human interaction. Worked for my sister. And my pussy little brother.














Kidding.
 
quit playing the victim for pete's sake.. no one gives a **** how terrible your existance is, do something about it. ask your parents to buy you a lock, or save up for one yourself, trust me, it's the closest you get to moving out in a long time.
 
CrazyHarij said:
v-man: i never said i did.. you blow meaningless details out of proportion. get your hormones in check, we all know you're never as certain of how life works when your a teenager, your gonna realise how unimportant your issues are later on, until then, show your vicinity some respect by having your angst bursts in private. throw on whatever music you like, play some cs, anything really. do something constructive with your anger.
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You do realize that means nothing, right?

"Here's some advice. Your problems don't matter, hf."
 
cheers qonf for completely missing the point. he's getting worked up for jack squat and probably making things worse for his parents.. lord knows i'll never have kids
 
You probably won't make it to any decent age anyway; might as well save the kids the heartbreak.
 
I will admit my problems aren't that bad compared to what some people have, but I'm not some emo shit and as I said I don't care for advice or opinions, I'm just venting. What do you think my original post was for?
 
V-Man339 said:
I will admit my problems aren't that bad compared to what some people have, but I'm not some emo shit and as I said I don't care for advice or opinions, I'm just venting. What do you think my original post was for?
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To annoy us like a snotty 9 year old girl?
 
No, to get rid of that anger... I just explained it in the quote that it was not to whine or ask for your help or opinions, so one would conclude that it was to get rid of what you guys call "angst".
 
lord knows i'll never have kids
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Damn dude, maybe you shouldn't.

First off I don't know where from his posts you're inferring that he's being an ingrate, or a burden, or otherwise being a nuisance on his parents. By asking his mother to curb his sister's actions? What a f*cking ungrateful piece of shit he is, right? After his parents clothe and feed him and provide him shelter he has some friggin' nerve to ask that they discipline his sister. What the hell, OP?

Also if you're going to post things like, "no one gives a **** how terrible your existance is," why even bother to post here at all? You could just as easily ignore the thread.

And how likely do you think it is his parents'd spring for a lock? Sometimes that ain't happening, which is why I told him just to get out of there.

Giving the poor guy shit and telling his issues are unimportant really help the whole situation though, don't they? But don't angst to your parents, OP.
 
V-Man339 said:
No, to get rid of that anger... I just explained it in the quote that it was not to whine or ask for your help or opinions, so one would conclude that it was to get rid of what you guys call "angst".
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Well, it was as annoying for us as a 9 year old girl would be :)

Darkside55 said:
Damn dude, maybe you shouldn't.

First off I don't know where from his posts you're inferring that he's being an ingrate, or a burden, or otherwise being a nuisance on his parents. By asking his mother to curb his sister's actions? What a f*cking ungrateful piece of shit he is, right? After his parents clothe and feed him and provide him shelter he has some friggin' nerve to ask that they discipline his sister. What the hell, OP?

Also if you're going to post things like, "no one gives a **** how terrible your existance is," why even bother to post here at all? You could just as easily ignore the thread.

And how likely do you think it is his parents'd spring for a lock? Sometimes that ain't happening, which is why I told him just to get out of there.

Giving the poor guy shit and telling his issues are unimportant really help the whole situation though, don't they? But don't angst to your parents, OP.
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Darkside. Serious.

wtf?
 
He's doing that thing chicks do where they talk just cuz they want someone to hear it. Feelings I think they call it.
 
Thanks for the advice Darkside, and you too Evil Milk.
As for Krynn, if you can't understand Darkside's post then I'm certainly not the 9 year old here...
 
the thing is, vman, what your writing here isnt even half as bad as your real issues, school, growing up, and methinks your lacking proper communication with your parents. that theyre taking side with your obnoxious sister because she's younger and in actual need of attendance isnt as important as you percieve it to be.
 
Krynn72 said:
Darkside. Serious.

wtf?
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What wtf?

Harij was telling him he was being an ingrate and that his parents deserved respect; I didn't read anywhere that V-Man was being disrespectful to his parents.

Secondly I hate people who just go off and say things like, "Don't post your issues here because nobody cares; they're unimportant." Obviously it's bothering the guy enough to want to, as the thread title says, vent. It's important to him at least.

And sometimes you really can't do things like lock a door, turn up the music, and play your games. Siblings can be outright annoying, determined little shits, and sometimes your parents don't want to deal with it.

JFry said:
He's doing that thing chicks do where they talk just cuz they want someone to hear it. Feelings I think they call it.
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Are you talking about me or V-Man?
 
darkside: or perhaps you should put your maternal instinct feelings aside and realise where theres smoke theres fire. were getting one side of the story that is hardly objective at all. his sister is NINE.
 
Krynn72 said:
I wasnt wtf-ing at your argument, I agree with it. I was wtf-ing at you giving a shit, and being serious about it. Just struck me as odd.
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Apparentley you don't know Darkside.

Crazy Harj, so your basically going on nothing but instinct to decide who's right and who's wrong? You must be on the wrong forum...
 
hes yelling to his mom, questioning her every ****ing act, hating on his stepdad just because. she has the right to send him to a shrink if he's bordering on hitting a 9 yr old, which strikes me as a very apt solution.
 
CrazyHarij said:
darkside: or perhaps you should put your maternal instinct feelings aside and realise where theres smoke theres fire. were getting one side of the story that is hardly objective at all. his sister is NINE.
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Well the OP's been nothing but candid so far. As well as the fact that I have known enough children in my lifetime to know that from the ages of six to twelve, they can be vindictive without provocation.

The point is that he has a sister that bugs him. On top of anything else, he seems to want to be left alone and his sister calls him an idiot and throws things at him, and his parents don't do anything about it. That's what we DO know. That's the side of the story we're being told. From all that, I can only offer advice. He should probably try and remove himself as far away from his sister as possible if she is not being disciplined. That is, at least, what I would do.

Krynn72 said:
I wasnt wtf-ing at your argument, I agree with it. I was wtf-ing at you giving a shit, and being serious about it. Just struck me as odd.
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Ah. Well, you know, I do offer some sage wisdom every now and again. :LOL:
 
v-man dont play outside of your league mate, no disrespect. i call it like i see it. plain logic. or you can give me your moms email address and we can find out who's the real bad guy.
 
d-side: the issue isnt why his parents arent doing anything. the issue is why HE isnt doing anything. hes playing the victim, a.k.a being an immature stuck up ingrate.. christ i would have expected more.
 
So what would you rather have me do? I get my parents to do something about my braty little sister or would you rather I, in my blind rage, murder her?
 
He is doing something about it though. Hes doing the only reasonable thing even. Hes talking with his parents about it. What else could he do?
 
if hes talking with them anyway like hes talking here, i can see why nothing happens
 
CrazyHarij said:
d-side: the issue isnt why his parents arent doing anything. the issue is why HE isnt doing anything. hes playing the victim, a.k.a being an immature stuck up ingrate.. christ i would have expected more.
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I'm not sure exactly what you expect of a fourteen-year-old. He's limited in the things he can do; as both he and Krynn said, he's appealing to the higher authority. It is a parents' job to discipline their children and mediate issues among them that they cannot resolve themselves.

At this point the only things he can do are put up with it or try and get away from her. Even things you suggested like getting a lock, those are things he has to ask his parents for. You yourself even said: "FFS, talk to your parents." He stated in his first post that he's attempted to do so.

Seriously, what are you expecting of him? How exactly is he "playing the victim" or "being an ingrate?" Have you ever had annoying siblings, Harij? Like I said previously, he can't just turn up his music and play CS with a bothersome little sister following him around throwing stuff at him.
 
that's the kind of mentality that's creating so many stupid brat ****s around the globe. when do you suggest he will be able to take responsibility and not sit around and wait for mommy to make everything better? if his parents won't buy him a lock he can save up for it himself.
 
In actuality I actually tried to buy a lock and they refused to let me.
 
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