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So I have a friend (no, this isn't a cop-out, I got over this issue years ago), who is experiencing an existential crisis. This is largely due to our freshman composition class (of all things). She has read Camus' essay on the three choices when confronting existential crisis: acceptance, religion (the cop-out in Camus' lexicon), or suicide. She has apparently decided acceptance is out of the question, and is waffling hard between religion or suicide.
She went on a retreat this weekend with a campus Christian group and has decided (over the course of a weekend) that she is 'going back to Jesus.' I am pretty sure that house of cards has a lifespan of a week at most, all it's waiting for is the right bump to collapse. She has already started on the path to skepticism and I doubt there's much turning back.
So, my question and dilemma is this: for those of you who struggled with this issue, any tips on how to convince her acceptance is the right decision? I have already figured the Socratic method is probably the right one (asking questions in order to guide her to a conclusion), but what specific issues have you encountered on the path to acceptance? What kinds of carrots and sticks can I use to guide her to a less precarious position?
She went on a retreat this weekend with a campus Christian group and has decided (over the course of a weekend) that she is 'going back to Jesus.' I am pretty sure that house of cards has a lifespan of a week at most, all it's waiting for is the right bump to collapse. She has already started on the path to skepticism and I doubt there's much turning back.
So, my question and dilemma is this: for those of you who struggled with this issue, any tips on how to convince her acceptance is the right decision? I have already figured the Socratic method is probably the right one (asking questions in order to guide her to a conclusion), but what specific issues have you encountered on the path to acceptance? What kinds of carrots and sticks can I use to guide her to a less precarious position?