Sex without love

[RMachucaA]

Sex without condom is THE BEST, nothing like it, i hate rubbers, hence i refrain from having casual sex, and leave the sex to someone who i can trust, and its the best, no worries about std's, no limited feeling down there since theres no barrier, heck, i've even delved into the chocolate starfish a few times, its awesome.

 

[jondy]

Sex without condom is THE BEST, nothing like it, i hate rubbers, hence i refrain from having casual sex, and leave the sex to someone who i can trust, and its the best, no worries about std's, no limited feeling down there since theres no barrier, heck, i've even delved into the chocolate starfish a few times, its awesome.

That's.... nice.

 

[poseyjmac]

You're making an assumption that Absinthe has already refuted; the fact that sex without love is ok doesn't make it ideal- to many people sex whilst in love would be infinitely more desirable.

You're also making the assumption that people keep the same mindset all their lives. People change, and maturity as people move into middleage generally ensures a higher level of fidelity.

EDIT: This thread moves fast. Also, Ron Burgundy is awesome.

i didn't assume that people keep a certain mindset all of their lives. i did say that IF someone maintains that mindset into marriage, that they will cheat.

however, are you assuming that everyone changes? are you also assuming that once someone gets married, that they won't cheat?

the point is, someone having this mindset before they get married, will be more likely to cheat on their spouse compared to someone who has always believed they should wait for marriage for sex. committment has nothing to do with it because of the simple fact that to many people, sex is a greater thing than committment. plus, its easy for people to maintain the illusion of committment while sleeping around. don't fool yourself.

 

[gh0st]

sex without condoms is ****ing gross. i dont like looking at my penis covered in both parties fluids. i dont like having to shower immediately after. plus its just nerve wracking and stupid unless you are scrogging your wife.

in terms of casual sex.. yeah. nothing wrong with it.

 

[poseyjmac]

oh come on .. I've had a lot of relations with women without being in love ..I'm married and I've never (nor ever will) cheated on my wife.

i didn't say those who had that mindset in the past are guaranteed to cheat on their wives when they get married.

 

[Sulkdodds]

But what about love without sex?

 

[Stigmata]

But what about love without sex?

Also possible. For example, I love my friends, but I'm fairly sure that I will never have sex with them, nor will I want to.

Which can be attributed to the fact that a majority of them are guys. But still

 

[jondy]

i didn't assume that people keep a certain mindset all of their lives. i did say that IF someone maintains that mindset into marriage, that they will cheat.

however, are you assuming that everyone changes? are you also assuming that once someone gets married, that they won't cheat?

the point is, someone having this mindset before they get married, will be more likely to cheat on their spouse compared to someone who has always believed they should wait for marriage for sex. committment has nothing to do with it because of the simple fact that to many people, sex is a greater thing than committment. plus, its easy for people to maintain the illusion of committment while sleeping around. don't fool yourself.

That's a big IF you have at the top- you shouldn't be taking your speculation as fact.

I highlighted some of the text above because you've already iterated that point and are talking in circles - the fact that people's value of commitment with regard to sex changes is what we are discussing.

But that wasn't the point of my post - you missed out the first paragraph, which held the main point I was trying to get across.

But what about love without sex?

Don't go there, barring exceptional circumstances it doesn't end pretty.

 

[Sulkdodds]

But what about love without sex?

Also possible.

Lies!!

 

[poseyjmac]

That's a big IF you have at the top- you shouldn't be taking your speculation as fact.

I highlighted some of the text above because you've already iterated that point and are talking in circles - the fact that people's value of commitment with regard to sex changes is what we are discussing.

But that wasn't the point of my post - you missed out the first paragraph, which held the main point I was trying to get across.

Don't go there, barring exceptional circumstances it doesn't end pretty.

no actually i didn't miss anything. many people do prefer sex whilst in love over sex without. but that doesn't make sex without love an invalid option or crappy. it just makes them more discreet about not messing up what great things they have.

plus a relationship where you are in love and having sex can evolve into something not so ideal obviously, so then the 2nd option becomes more appetizing.

 

[EVIL]

its ok.. but in the end, its easier to wank to get release some steam.. I don't see mutch diffrence exept a female body to play with.

 

[Sulkdodds]

Well, er, it's more fun, gives pleasure to someone else as well as you, goes on for a lot longer, generally boosts your self-esteem instead of lowering it... :E

 

[Ennui]

Wankin' don't lower my self esteem a bit.

 

[Icarusintel]

Well, er, it's more fun, gives pleasure to someone else as well as you, goes on for a lot longer, generally boosts your self-esteem instead of lowering it... :E

yeah, but i'm far more efficient at jacking it, and it means less cash output, i can do it for free

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

It's LEGAL. But no it's not really okay in the sense of that kinda thing.

edit: If you mean should it be legal, yes it should be legal after consenting age. Figured you're asking in a moral/is it really okay the practice itself kinda thing.

 

[joule]

Sex without love. Love without sex.

Both good for me.

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

Sex without love. Love without sex.

Both good for me.

Am I allowed to post the secret yet? The one involving the log with Deathseeker and stuff?

 

[Hectic Glenn]

Sex without love. Love without sex.

Both good for me.

Basically he means...

Anything with a pulse

Rakurai....i wouldn't its not for these eyes here...

 

[xLostx]

why would you even ask this lol, of course it is.

 

[joule]

Am I allowed to post the secret yet? The one involving the log with Deathseeker and stuff?

Do it!

:bounce:

 

[BabyHeadCrab]

There's nothing wrong with it. Though I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't love

well, that pretty much ruined my day

 

[Vigilante]

well, that pretty much ruined my day

Hey babe :naughty:

 

[ComradeBadger]

I don't have sex without love regularly. When I do have sex, it's without love.

I don't plan on getting married. I don't want kids.