So Today I Hit a Kid 3 Years Younger Than Me...

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Was I in the wrong?
Basically, him and his mates have been having a go at me for months, theres about 8 of them, (power in numbers eh?) just following me around calling me names, throwing stuff at me, I'd call it bullying but as soon as you say that your classed as being weak. Its been pissing me off for ages, I did the logical thing and walked away, they followed, I ignored them, they come right to my face and piss me off for a laugh, what was I supposed to do, tell a teacher Year 7's were bullying me? All that would do is get them a light telling off, after which they'd do it again, only worse, plus I didnt know any names, so even that might not have happened.
So today, they started doing it again, calling my name from across the balcony repeatedly, so I thought "**** it, I've had enough." and proceeded to chase them, they all split up so I went after one in particular who had pissed me off alot, caught up behind him, got him round the neck and slammed him into a wall, and started hitting him round the back of the head (He didnt fight back, just tried to protect his face.) before one of his mates (Who hadnt actually been annoying) told me to lay off him, so I did. I had initially expected them to all jump on me but I guess they all decided it'd be better off for them to stay out of it.
The result? Well, he cried, everyone in Year 7 took his side, everyone in Year 10 took my side (The kids were generally annoying twats with no respect for anything.) I got called "sick in the head" for hitting a Year 7, (By a chav no less) and his flock of mates (Who didnt help him at all, real good mates...) came up to me, saying he was crying and that it was wrong, I mean what did they expect? Me to just take all their comments and bullying (I'll admit, it was basically bullying) in my stride? One of them even said "If we all battered you, I bet you'd cry." I simple said "Go on then." They shut up after that.
Now, punishment-wise, the teacher dealing with it understood my provokication and knew that group of kids were a pain, had a big go at the lad I hit and all his mates, and told me to just tell a teacher next time, and he'll take me round the forms so I can show him who, no names needed. I still dont have faith in the school system, so I dont know if I will.
A few of his mates are still doing it (A lot have stopped.) and Im going to tell someone that they arent stopping, and if nothing changes, well I guess if it builds up to that point again, I'll have to do it again, probably worse since they didnt seem to get the message this time.
Apologies for the long post, felt quite strongly about this, he is still viewed by some as "innocent" as he's younger, I swear some people would let kids off with murder because of their age.
 
I agree with you younger children are responsible for their actions. In this case bully = hit. I believe someone in your position has the right to protect themselfs from abuse. Dont let them get to you. People always stick up for younger kids as I have seen it many times myself. If it happens again you might as well punch the kids and those defending them.
 
You did the right thing. I had the same thing all the way through school. The only problem with my school, was that if you did anything like you have, they'd all gang up on me outside school....fortunatly, i never had to resort to being violent or anything. hated school. You'll be glad when you're out, the police tend to take you more seriously than stupid ****wit teachers.
 
you did nothing wrong. it's good that the other dudes didn't gang up on you cuz then that would've sucked more. pretty much what everyone else has said, tell a teacher next time if they get like that once again
 
This is why they need to give teachers the right to beat kids again, you did a lot by hitting that kid, I bet he learned his lesson

Don't feel bad dude, you were in the right 100%
 
It's not for anyone on this forum to judge whether or not you were in the wrong. You did it. You decide.

Personally, had I been in the that situation I would have done something very similar. If this incident has in fact taught the little shits a lesson (probably quite unlikely) then they should count themselves lucky. It would only have been a matter of time until they did the same to someone not so...forgiving, and end up in hospital or worse.

I do disagree though that admitting to being bullied instantly means you're classed as being weak. I was bullied for the majority of my school life, mostly by people smaller than me who used the fact that had I retaliated violently it probably would have been murder, against me. They didn't pick me because I was weak, they picked me because they knew I was forced not to react. In the last few years of school when they realised that they were never going to get the reaction they wanted from me, they took the focus from me and started on a friend of mine. This led to some interesting situations where I was able to caught in the crossfire and cause some pain myself. It was quite fun when they would try to push my friend around during a football match, only to find me (I played prop in the school rugby team, these other guys could hardly lift the ball) in the way, and had a considerably harder landing :D

Running the risk of sounding like a government funded anti-bullying campaign, you are only weak if you let them make you so. You have to take the power back, one way or the other, although your course of action may not always be the best ;)
 
there were these retarded little kids in town that were who were like 13 is that i was like 17 at the time I believe, they kept throwing stuff on a very busy street that lead into town and they'd just stand literally on the road blocking traffic.
So myself and my 2 friends turned the car around because one my friend was like "we should go punch them in the face" i thought he was serious so I got out grabbed one by the throat and told him i was going to break his ****ing neck lol, it was funny as hell cuz my friends were like holy shit dude we werent serious! then ppl in cars started stopping and were like "what are you doing to that kid!" it was funny none the less.

yeah kids are retarded like that and it's people who are older than them to put them in their place, it's only logical.
 
The best way to deal with kids is just be confident, or at least act confident, that way they think "I'd better not mess with that guy"

I remember this kid in school, he thought it was funny to run up to me and kick me in the shin, the 5th time he tried, I picked him up and put him in the bin.
 
Agh, don't get me started on chavs: - they're vermin in my book, and should be treated as such.
 
Can't form some kind of army/resistance against the legions of chavs that have infected our lives?
 
People say hit to mean sleep with, far too often :x
Or maybe I'm just a sick sick person.

I don't really hit people, and I'd only do it if I was in danger of being seriously injured or killed. Or of course if they were attacking my family, friends or girlfriend.
 
The reason there are loads of chavs is because of the lack of discipline these days.
When i was at school the chavs could get away with anything, really really annoying, walk round like they own the place sort of stuff.

Soceity is ****ed for the future because of the way people have been brought up over the past 2 decades.

When i was at school, for a period of about 3 weeks i had a "gang" of about 15 kids a year younger than me constantly harrasing me as i went round on my own.
Because i was the "alpha male", big and strong they decided if they could pick on me they would make themselves feel better.
There is usually a ring leader, its often funny because you can see the one at the back don't really want to be in the confrontation, being cowardly with the ring leader.

There are 2 ways to solve it:
-The friendly approach, now i'm usually quite good at this...you have to give reasons for them to like you, in the past people who have annoyed /attempted to bully me become friendly after they learn i like a simmilar thing or whatever. (or they grow up)

-The un-friendly approach, beat the shit out of the ring leader, make an example of him, i know a person who was harrased by a load of younger students, he smashed the persons face into a desk and he was never pestered again.
Of course schools hate the violent approach and you will get bollocked.
It is actually quite rare for chav types to stick up that much for a mate, they are cowardly by nature.
 
if I was in the same situation

I will done the same thing
 
I'm noticing a lot of people from the UK all of a sudden. What's a "chav"? BTW, as it's been said, 'you were in the right 100%'.
 
Think along the line of young wannabe-punks, but more mutant and annoying.
 
Direwolf said:
Think along the line of young wannabe-punks, but more mutant and annoying.
Well from by the looks of it...they're more like wiggers then wannabe-punks.
 
I didn't really mean punks as in spiked-collar-and-mohawk, but more as a euphemism for "asshole."
 
So...basically chav is British for asshole? Gotcha.
Ah..ya beat me to it.
 
http://www.chavscum.co.uk/index.php
All you need to know. Bit of a fuss about whether Britain is becoming too "class" focused or something about it, but its not because they're lower class, its because they're complete and utter morons.
EDIT: I think chavs are more centered around dance "music" than rap, or they are here anyway. One of our teachers is calling her baby Joel Joshua, so that his initals are "JJB". :x (Thats a sports shop, kind of place chavs love, trainers and tracksuits all in one place.)
 
lePobz said:
Agh, don't get me started on chavs: - they're vermin in my book, and should be treated as such.
Hit with a broom! :smoking:

EDIT: I wish I had the nerve to kick those bastards arses. They piss me off, and I'm older than them, but I hate the after effect of being told off - that's the bit that gets me, otherwise I'd attack them all on sight.
 
short recoil said:
Soceity is ****ed for the future because of the way people have been brought up over the past 2 decades.

Of course schools hate the violent approach and you will get bollocked.
It is actually quite rare for chav types to stick up that much for a mate, they are cowardly by nature.

I totally agree with you 110% on those two things. People at my school are encouraged to turn the other cheek when it comes to bullying... It only makes it worse.
 
Yeah you did the right thing, you tried to ignore it and peacefully solve the situation, they didn't cooperate and they paid for it.
 
Little kids who pick on big kids should end up injured... its natural selection. I mean, how ****ing stupid can you be?
 
bliink said:
Little kids who pick on big kids should end up injured... its natural selection. I mean, how ****ing stupid can you be?

Yeah someone learned that the hard way with me :E
 
i bet they avoid you now dont they?.. and where were your friends when this was going on??
 
Hmmm... I got the same problem :( only the kids are 1 year younger. I haven't yet resorted to violence, but my friend got pissed at him calling me stuff, and hit him quite hard with a metal key chain :LOL:
 
Do what works!
From my experiences, making little kids feel bad makes them stop being so annoying

Him: I dont want to do my homework
Me: Yeah well if you dont then you will end up as a bum on the side of the road who tries to sell a bag of dirt because thats the only thing you have left while people spit on you and ignore you for the rest of your life.
Him: /ME DOES HOMEWORK
Me: Problem solved
 
The little bastard deserved what he got. Infact, you did him a favor - What if you had let them get off, and they found someone else to mess with; someone who isn't as nice as you. Now he knows better.
 
ne0_shiny said:
Do what works!
From my experiences, making little kids feel bad makes them stop being so annoying

Him: I dont want to do my homework
Me: Yeah well if you dont then you will end up as a bum on the side of the road who tries to sell a bag of dirt because thats the only thing you have left while people spit on you and ignore you for the rest of your life.
Him: /ME DOES HOMEWORK
Me: Problem solved
Your kid could roll to school the next day he'd be so warped.
 
I picked up a kid about 14 years old and lifted him off his feet to a wall... Although, he was picking on an elderly lady, so he had the "get ****ing lost you punk-ass bitch" coming to him...
 
He got what was coming to him...you didn't put him in a coma or anything he just needs to shake it off and remember not to mess with you.
 
Good job. He deserved it, bullying like that. It must of felt good. Now I want to kick some ass.
 
Younger kids don't try and insult me, it is usually fat and/or crosseyed ones. :|

Not that I get insulted alot or anything.
 
Hell, in boarding school you should see some the beatings that get administered by older year levels!!!
 
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