Okay, so my current job at Wal-Mart isn't the most rewarding, but there is someone there that makes it going a little more worthwhile. I have a crush on this hot girl who works over in jewelry, thing is, I don't know if she likes me or not. I was %100 sure she was talking about me one time in the breakroom w/ this other girl. All I heard was "That dude" and "I know", so I automatically thought it was bad. Recent events have confirmed this, kind of. I mentioned to another co-worker I might ask her out, he said something like "she's out of your league" (even though he's a weak little b*tch and I could care less about his opinion, it still offended me). And she is leaving in a month to go back to school, so I have very little time to make teh moves. Someone, help!.
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Farrowlesparrow
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Ouch Fox...Burn
Its difficult for anyone here to give advice considering two things, the afore-mentioned membership and the fact we know very little about the situation. However I would suggest just trying to get to know her. How well do you know her at the moment? Are you going to seperate schools? If so, why not ask a week before she has to leave? Then really you don't have to deal with it if she turns you down.
Its difficult for anyone here to give advice considering two things, the afore-mentioned membership and the fact we know very little about the situation. However I would suggest just trying to get to know her. How well do you know her at the moment? Are you going to seperate schools? If so, why not ask a week before she has to leave? Then really you don't have to deal with it if she turns you down.
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Foxtrot said:
lol. Take a reality check man. Or you can just ask her out. The worst that will happen is she will say no and you will be mocked incessantly and be forced to quit your job at Walmart.
jk
If you really think you have a chance, take it.
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From long experience, I can tell you that whenever you ask this question everyone will tell you: just ask her, no big deal. Because as far as I can see, there's really nothing more to it.
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Max35 said:
Do you really think you have chance with her. Its a simple yes or no question. You get the best answer if you answer the question as soon as you ask it.
Example
a) Do I have a realistic chance with that girl?
b) No, because my face scares children...
a) Do I have a realistic chance iwth that girl?
b) Yes, because she likes my sense of humor, etc...
That is a reality check. Sometimes people spend way too much time over analyzing things (like me). The quickest way to end is to come up with an answer.
Anyways, I learned one thing from my Pyschology 101 class from several years ago. You will tend to have the best realtionships with people who you think are on par with your looks, intelligence, etc. Don't let that stop you, just take it into consideration.
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What’s can happen if you ask?
1.) She says no, and for the rest of month everybody in the store will know about you being rejected, and will giggle behind your back, stare at you and think that you are total ****ing loser.
Or
2.) She says no, and you can just masturbate for the rest of month on her, of course she doesn’t need to know.
I am not helping, am I?
In reality, like Farrow said, even if she says yes, what do you want from relationship? Also, you already made one big mistake; you want to go out with her because she is “HOT”.
1.) She says no, and for the rest of month everybody in the store will know about you being rejected, and will giggle behind your back, stare at you and think that you are total ****ing loser.
Or
2.) She says no, and you can just masturbate for the rest of month on her, of course she doesn’t need to know.
I am not helping, am I?
In reality, like Farrow said, even if she says yes, what do you want from relationship? Also, you already made one big mistake; you want to go out with her because she is “HOT”.
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just talk to her for longer than an hour, she should be sending you all kinds of signs if she likes you ...if in that time she hasnt touched your arm at least once while talking, chances are she thinks you're a dork and not dating material 
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CptStern said:just talk to her for longer than an hour, she should be sending you all kinds of signs if she likes you ...if in that time she hasnt touched your arm at least once while talking, chances are she thinks you're a dork and not dating material
Well damn me then....I caught one
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well see what you have to do is, work on your farm for like all of summer spring and fall- go talk to her everyday though, and remember what she likes and bring that too her. Eventually the little heart in her speech bubble will change colors, once it gets red, put it in her... yeah :monkee:
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Just talk...none of this sit back and analyze the situation crud, that was OK in 5th grade. Now people talk, just go up to her, "Hey wanna grab some coffee? Not coffee? Pop, perhaps? I actually have an extra ticket to {insert uber-1337 movie}, and I got no one to go with." :thumbs:
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CptStern said:just talk to her for longer than an hour, she should be sending you all kinds of signs if she likes you ...if in that time she hasnt touched your arm at least once while talking, chances are she thinks you're a dork and not dating material
Uh touching your hand/arm? I talked to my girlfriend and she never touched me until we got intro relationship. That’s not a sign at all.
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I honestly don't who is funnier in this thread, Mr.Reak or Foxtrot.
Mattigus said:
I'm 19, she is around the same age as me. Well, maybe asking her out would be a bit ambitious seeing as how I haven't said ONE word to her yet, lol! me = sky weirdo). I just meant, once I actually got to know her, so maybe I am going a step ahead of myself.
Edit: I love how the majority of these posts in this thread are either sarcastic or lame attempts at self-amusement, oh well I guess that has taught me a lesson never to ask advice at hl2.net again lol!.
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Max35 said:
Ok wait, so your pretty much convinced she's not interested "That dude" and "I know" adding to it, and recent events.
Yet you want to go ahead and ask her out when you know you wont get a good answer and it'll simply put you down further, more so if she laughs at you, which she likely will by the sounds of it
Crazy, but ok, its your life
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Max35 said:
Holy fritos Batman!
You at least have to talk to her before you ask her out. That is the first rule of thumb.
You shouldn't ask her out unless you talk to her. Looks are only a small part of a relationship.
Don't take our joking seriously. There is some good advice in this thread.
The Dark Elf said:Ok wait, so your pretty much convinced she's not interested "That dude" and "I know" adding to it, and recent events.
Yet you want to go ahead and ask her out when you know you wont get a good answer and it'll simply put you down further, more so if she laughs at you, which she likely will by the sounds of it
Crazy, but ok, its your life
A very blunt post, but it's probably what I needed, thanks Dark Elf.
