What would you do if you get bullied

[Adrien C]

Stand up for yourself mate, people trough history have done it, even if they are minority. Calling the teachers will make you look like a wuss, so stand up and say NO. You are in china, lots of martial arts over there, learn aikido, the best defence art ever.

 

[Vigilante]

Invest heavily in firearms.

Q to the F to the T

screw the teachers ..go straight to the principle and demand something be done or you'll go to the school board ..dont pussy foot around ..tell your parents you're scared you'll be beaten to death

oh and never give him money. If he asks you for money go straight to the principle and tell him exactly how much he asked for ..that is enough to get him expelled in most zero-tolerant school boards.

Double QFT

 

[Dog--]

Ok, This HAS Worked for me: Be there punching bag for a bit while you work out and get muscles, then kick the shit outa them, I was in a similar bully predicament as yours, and this worked for me, the worse they can do is punch you... ooooooo wow a punch.... It only hurts if you think it does <-- Sounds like some hippy-crystal-gripping-crap but seriously, don't think it hurts, and it wont hurt as bad as you think.

 

[TheSomeone]

Ok, This HAS don't think it hurts, and it wont hurt as bad as you think.

Wait hold on, if you don't think it hurts, shouldn't it hurt as bad you think(which is not hurting at all)?

 

[Da-Muffin-Man]

That sucks dude... in my opinion telling the teachers and giving the kid money was the worse thing to do. I would have got a bunch of my friends to help me out and kick him and his friends f*cking asses.

P.S. If all else fails, use weapons.

 

[Zeus]

If possible place them in the Walls of Jericho or the Crippler Cross Face. If possible get a mate and do both at the same time. Trust me, the pain is unberable when they do it properly.



The memories *shudders*

Well of course those are wrestling holds used by trained professionals, you could really hurt someone bad if you were to use it. BTW to the original poster, don't give this dude money..my friend did this because some big black kid bullied him into giving him 5 bucks...next day he got 10 bucks when he came back, then one day he came over and made my man run his pockets in front of the whole table.. Dont give this kid your money, thats one of the top bullying reasons that the bullys are in it for..

and 2 years ago on the afternoon bus this fat kid who kept punching at me, he hit no one else because I was always the nice guy who wouldnt hit him back because I thought "hey he's just playing around"..one day he did it I got pissed and I got up in his face and just pushed him not even with all my might not really even that hard TBH and he fell right over onto the floor, after that everyone laughed at him he was embarrased and said nothing to me..lol

but anyway dude..make sure you don't give the bully any more money..he asks again tell him no, he hits you you hit him back, thats how it must be handled..step it up to this guy..let him know that he's not in charge of your life and he needs to back up and know his place. Be a man..people still think I can't fight because Im thin (but tall) and some often talk lots of sh*t (like this one kid that I know, I kno I can beat him though)..but I just say "hey you kno what he can talk whatever he wants when he puts his hands on me that's when its turning physical"

 

[Sparta]

I used to get bullied when i was about 13/14 i just ignored them untill finally they couldnt be bothered with me anymore

Bingo. There's the best possible strategy. Ignore them. Bullies want reactions. If he's calling you names and shit ignore him/them. Never try to out-bully a bully. If he tries to beat the shit out of you with his friends, just walk off, dont run, and ignore whatever he says to you, no matter what he says.

It'll get worse before it gets better. He'll/They'll try harder to make you crack, and you'll feel like cracking but dont. Hold it together. Soon they'll get bored of teasing you and find someone else.

Its how bully's work.

 

[Krynn72]

I really recommend not crying to teachers about it. I had a friend back in highschool that got bullied by some kid, and after awhile, his parents just took him out of the school and to a private one just to get him away. When he came back to our school 2 yrs later he basically turned loner since he never saw his friend for 2 years. It really wreaked him. I would seriously just duke it out with the kid.

Dont let him hit you without retailiating. If it turns into a serious fight then might gain his respect if you fight back. Its pretty much what happened to me. You wont be on good terms, but he might become afraid of you, and thats all you need to get him to stop. As long as you dont instigate further, or insult him, then he probably wont do anything else.

My advice, When he throws a punch you throw a punch. When he cusses you out, dont say anything. I dont know how to say this, but I guess "Stay civil" when you fight. If you hit him good, and he backs off a bit, dont go after him and start wailing on him, just be calm and give him chances to leave with his dignity. If you embarass him, he will have cause for revenge, and wont stop till he gets it. Tread lightly, but show him you WILL NOT TAKE IT.

 

[Sparta]

Oh for gods sake. If you fight back it'll only make things worse. That way he gets a reaction. Not to mention he's probably been in more fights than you, plus he's also got bully friends. If you fight back, you're ****ed.

Unless you're awesome at Muay Thai

 

[Dan]

Well mopping around feeling sorry for yourself won't do any good, neither will paying protection money. Pick someones advice and take it. Personally I'd try to fight back, however if this guy was way bigger than me and had scary friends I'd probably go to the principal, the school board, the police, the local paper, parents. Make note of the extortion and the physical abuse and threat of future physical abuse, fear of death. But that's here in America where they are super paranoid about school shootings. If all of the reporting doesn't work, atleast you have documented your efforts to stop the problem. From there you can go and do something more drastic like stick a knife in his leg and twist a bit or take your parents car and run him down or firebomb his house. But that is getting pretty drastic

 

[bam23]

Work on your posture (I don't really know the word for it). Bullies like to pick on people who appear weak and have no confidence in themselves. Don't walk around looking at the ground the whole time and give off the impression that you are afraid.

I've never been bullied before, at 5'9 (not extremely tall, but not short) I'm usually not a target, but I do see a lot of the bullies pick on the very same type of people that I described above.

 

[destrukt]

be [over] confident, stay in groups/public areas (surround yourslef), don't fight back, don't give him anything [money, especially satisfaction] .. and what everyone else said.

 

[Skaadi]

I get bullied because I'm different. If they want to act like clones then......

 

[Top Secret]

Seriously. Beat the ****ing shit out of him. If there's more than one, and you can't take them. Hit the first one in the balls, use your elbows, it helps. Also, the forhead is the hardest part of your body, if you hit in the middle of the nose, it will break. Go for it. Whatever you do, if you go down, go down swinging. If you get knocked down, GET BACK UP.

:|

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

You gave him money? Worst choice you could've made.

And if you do hit, you can't hit lightly. Not implying you 'literally' hit him lightly, but once you've returned a blow, you need to make it serious and memorable. I'm betting the best bet has already past to accomplish that, if you'd have beaten the shit out of him I doubt it would be where it is now. So-

As far as it is now, tell whoever you can. There is no 'pride' or such lost because they've already tried to jump you with several people. How sad and pathetic. Like my father says, at least back in his day when somebody was wrong (like the guy you encountered) if something went down because of it, it was between you and him and that resolved it. None of this "oh, I'm going to jump you with my 10 friends, that makes us badass because we can take one person"

 

[Solaris]

Back to my 5v1 Idea.

He said this guy was bigger than him, I'm assuming none of his freinds are very big either, so you all get together, when the Bully gets one of you, you all absolutly pwn the bully.

If your schools any good telling the teacher would be a good idea.

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

Back to my 5v1 Idea.

He said this guy was bigger than him, I'm assuming none of his freinds are very big either, so you all get together, when the Bully gets one of you, you all absolutly pwn the bully.

If your schools any good telling the teacher would be a good idea.

I agreed with Solaris. I must now end myself.

 

[wolvesrdogs]

where u from man

 

[Sparta]

Seriously, if you think you can beat the shit out of this bully, you're wrong.

 

[$kelet0r]

it's an option
bully's like weakness - standing up for yourself means walking tall, not letting them hurt you or scare you, laugh off their threats, staying with good friends all day, saying 'get a life' and walk away when he bothers you, aiming to break his nose if they attack you, fighting like a madman if you're cornered by a group, getting allies in the form of staff, parents, police
all of these are options - options to be applied appropriately
dignity should be the first option violence the last
BUT do not let them win

 

[Sparta]

bully's like weakness

And giving in and fighting him is exactly what he wants. A chance to pummel the shit out of you.

 

[Lucid]

Those horrid memories of elementary school...

I got bullied so damn bad.
All I did was take the heat, and then at the end of the week... strategically moved us in the line of sight from a teacher, kid got busted and never picked on me ever again.

Then a new kid comes in, he's worse than the other kid because he enjoys punching people for no reason.
He punched me one day, and lived to regret it... Broke his arm with a mere twist.

I know how you feel man.
Bullies are what make that line "Safe learning enviroments." completely void.

 

[Kyorisu]

Back to my 5v1 Idea.

He said this guy was bigger than him, I'm assuming none of his freinds are very big either, so you all get together, when the Bully gets one of you, you all absolutly pwn the bully.

If your schools any good telling the teacher would be a good idea.

This works people. I got to know everyone at my school on some level, so I'm allways near someone I know. If anything does happen you'll have plenty of witnesses.

Anywhoo P.E. haha if your into sports join a club, nuts to phys ed drop it asap.

 

[15357]

Any fire extinguishers at your school? Throw one.

 

[john121]

when i was in HS, i used a great method called "hotmail" where i created an account with the bullies name in it, then sent really bad emails to the principal, assistant principal, and a few of his teachers...

that got him out of my hair for at least 2 weeks!

 

[Beerdude26]

when i was in HS, i used a great method called "hotmail" where i created an account with the bullies name in it, then sent really bad emails to the principal, assistant principal, and a few of his teachers...

that got him out of my hair for at least 2 weeks!

rofl
I assume he never found out

 

[Zeus]

Any fire extinguishers at your school? Throw one.

Yes, great plan, so when he cracks the kids skull open and his parents have to go to court and pay thousands in medical bills...

anyway, don't take the wuss way out by getting a whole bunch of people to jump him, it only makes you look more cowardly. The way it must be settled is in a 1 on 1...getting many people to jump this guy is likely to worsen the problem and you'll only find yourself on the recieving end of things when he brings his friends to jump you back. If it's a 1 on 1 even if you lose the guy might say "hmm this kids not taking sh*t anymore, time to find another sucker who just gives in to my demands" and leave you alone..its possible

 

[Sulkdodds]

Slightly off-topic, it always amazes me how disgusting, despicable, evil and hateful kids (even as young as like 5) can be to eachother. but I guess it shouldn't.

 

[Beerdude26]

Slightly off-topic, it always amazes me how disgusting, despicable, evil and hateful kids (even as young as like 5) can be to eachother. but I guess it shouldn't.

IT'S THE FAULT OF VIDEO GAMES! *sues* [/JT]

 

[Element Alpha]

Stand up for yourself. Never ever give in. Take the beating if you have to. It's worse to be a pussy than to get beat up, believe me. Once you've had a fight with a bully, you'll never be afraid of one again.

So just go on your way. If he bothers you again, tell him you have no business with him. If threatens you, tell him "You've gotta do what you've gotta do, and so do I".

If he fights, fight back. Always. It's not that bad if he/they kick your ass. For bullies, people who stand up for themselves are too much of a hassle.

Don't run, don't count on luck. Count on yourself.

 

[kirovman]

Slightly off-topic, it always amazes me how disgusting, despicable, evil and hateful kids (even as young as like 5) can be to eachother. but I guess it shouldn't.

The worst kid in the world is the one off 1984 who reported his mum to the thought police. Bastard.

 

[15357]

Yes, great plan, so when he cracks the kids skull open and his parents have to go to court and pay thousands in medical bills...

anyway, don't take the wuss way out by getting a whole bunch of people to jump him, it only makes you look more cowardly. The way it must be settled is in a 1 on 1...getting many people to jump this guy is likely to worsen the problem and you'll only find yourself on the recieving end of things when he brings his friends to jump you back. If it's a 1 on 1 even if you lose the guy might say "hmm this kids not taking sh*t anymore, time to find another sucker who just gives in to my demands" and leave you alone..its possible

I never said at him. Just throw it on the ground to scare him away. Or swing it in the air.

 

[CyberPitz]

Shoot him in the face, blame the fact the school has piss poor security, so you took it into your own hands.

That sounds sexy.

 

[Jintor]

Are you still here?

 

[kirovman]

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/asia-pacific/4377300.stm

:O

 

[Harryz]

Sieg hasn't replied in a while, shall we assume hes dead?

 

[kirovman]

Sieg hasn't replied in a while, shall we assume hes dead?

Looks like it

 

[Raz]

Either that, or in prison for murder. Thanks to you guys of course.

 

[Danimal]

One tip (Or maybe a few)

1) Do NOT give him anything he wants, if you do he will keep persistant and you'll be his bitch

2) Bullies only bully because they get bullied themselves (lol), it gives them a boost of confidence knowing that they're stronger than at least one person. So just laugh off their insults, be witty WHATEVER, just don't give into his/her insults.

3) If he/she lays a finger on you. Sue them. Take them to the cleaners and put forth a message to others saying you don't want to get ****ed with. If you can't afford it then avoid this tip.

4) Try to avoid fighting if you know you can't, it's better to walk away scratch free then in the principal's office with a bleeding nose and an even worse reputation.

5) Don't try to scare them with aggression, it labels you as a loose-cannon phyco that's easy to piss off.

6) Stick with your friends, it's a part of what BEING a friend is for, bullies attack loners (Or anyone alone in the first place).


At my school, bullying is just everywhere and at least one fight emerges a day, the way I deal with it is just randomness if it's only verbal. I convinced a bunch of kids that I was Jesus and now I advertise pancakes for some other kid who calls me Hitler, it confuses the **** out of them can sometimes lead to friendship =S

I have a reputation for craziness anyway, it's basically up to you how to deal with bullying. They only want to focus on the socially disadvantaged in a sad attempt to boost their ego.

 

[Sulkdodds]

Good advice, but you're too late. TOO LATE.