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Does it bother you when people speak their native language?
Does it bother you when people speak their native language?
It's mainly the nationality stuff. Just because my parents are Malaysian/Chinese doesn't make me Malaysian/Chinese. I'm Australian. You implied that somehow it was wrong for me to consider myself Australian.
What Jintor says.
If I was born in China, brought up to speak Chinese as my native language, eating Chinese food and developing my self round Chinese culture and society then for all intents and purposes I would be Chinese and no, the colour of my skin wouldn't change that, except in the eyes of racists.
Your essentially saying that you gotta do this and do that and know this and know that because of the colour of his skin. Do you not realize how utterly primitive an attitude that sounds like?.
There is absolutely no reason Jintor would need to know Chinese or Malay beyond perhaps the enjoyment of a second language and if he himself wanted to communicate with it.
He is Australian, his native language is English, he lives and loves in Australia. I am British, my native tongue is English, I live and love in Britain.
I don't need to know German. He doesn't need to know Malay. So why is it he needs to learn a language useless to his daily life?.
Hopefully you'll see the illogic of your position and realize how stupid it is.
We can't all mordernise ourselves can we?
I hear it all the ****ing time personally, but maybe I'm hanging out in the bad neighbourhoods.German? Really?
According to Flaming's logic I am failing to get ahead in life because I don't speak German, even though I've never been to Germany, have no immediate plans to go to Germany, have never needed to speak German and don't foresee any need to speak German, likewise the question of whether I am of German stock or French or whatever has never been a massive issue that's stopped me from getting by.
I'm sure my Grandfather is spinning in his grave knowing that his son and grandson don't speak German.
What Jintor says.
If I was born in China, brought up to speak Chinese as my native language, eating Chinese food and developing my self round Chinese culture and society then for all intents and purposes I would be Chinese and no, the colour of my skin wouldn't change that, except in the eyes of racists.
Your essentially saying that you gotta do this and do that and know this and know that because of the colour of his skin. Do you not realize how utterly primitive an attitude that sounds like?.
There is absolutely no reason Jintor would need to know Chinese or Malay beyond perhaps the enjoyment of a second language and if he himself wanted to communicate with it.
He is Australian, his native language is English, he lives and loves in Australia. I am British, my native tongue is English, I live and love in Britain.
I don't need to know German. He doesn't need to know Malay. So why is it he needs to learn a language useless to his daily life?.
Hopefully you'll see the illogic of your position and realize how stupid it is.
I apologize if I offended you, I should've elabourated. I don't consider it "wrong" to consider yourself Austrailian, but I consider it wrong if you don't recognize yourself as Malaysian/Chinese. My humble opinion of course, but get where I'm going?
I don't understand why you must take such an aggressive approach.
Bottomline is, I consider it a pathetic thing to do to reject your own culture and tradition and race and claim yourself as another race. Of course, you can consider yourself half British or whatever because you were born there, but in no way are you a full British or will ever be one.
That's the nicest thing I've ever heard him say, and if I don't say so, I don't think he will give you the same courtesy again.I don't understand why you must take such an aggressive approach.
So all the Jews living in America, whos parents were born in America, whos Grandparents were born in America, whos Great Grandparents were born in America, whos Great-Great Grandparents were immigrants from Germany, should learn Hebrew or German? Considering that they are Jews they should learn Hebrew by your logic, correct? If nobody speaks Hebrew in your entire living family, then who are you going to speak it too?Bottomline is, I consider it a pathetic thing to do to reject your own culture and tradition and race and claim yourself as another race. Of course, you can consider yourself half British or whatever because you were born there, but in no way are you a full British or will ever be one.
Maybe embarrassing isnt the right word, it just sounds rather ignorant or indifferent to not know ones culture. Im not saying its a must, but it is your culture. We can't all mordernise ourselves can we? Tradition still takes a stand.
Ones culture? Ones culture is where he or she was born and raised. Your culture is the one you grew up with, not the one of your great great grand parents who happened to live in another country.
Also the mentality that you have to learn and do things for the sake of "tradition" really annoys me, mainly because there are plenty of people like that around here (mainly older people but that's besides the point). If you like these traditions and want to take part in them then that's fine, but feeling the need to do it out of some sort of misguided sense of duty to you ancestors cultural legacy is just wrong in my opinion.
So all the Jews living in America, whos parents were born in America, whos Grandparents were born in America, whos Great Grandparents were born in America, whos Great-Great Grandparents were immigrants from Germany, should learn Hebrew or German? Considering that they are Jews they should learn Hebrew by your logic, correct? If nobody speaks Hebrew in your entire living family, then who are you going to speak it too?
I am a descendant of Malaysian/Chinese heritage but I am not, myself, Malaysian or Chinese.
In any case, I guess what you seem to be speaking of is some kind of fear of globalisation or, perhaps, Cultural Imperialism, to which I say 'meh'. 'Culture' is basically a bunch of memes which people accept either blindly because of tradition or because they choose to; to be forced to act in a certain way merely because of an accident of birth is not something I can completely agree with.
That said, I know Chinese mainly because I like to be able to talk to people.
So all the Jews living in America, whos parents were born in America, whos Grandparents were born in America, whos Great Grandparents were born in America, whos Great-Great Grandparents were immigrants from Germany, should learn Hebrew or German? Considering that they are Jews they should learn Hebrew by your logic, correct? If nobody speaks Hebrew in your entire living family, then who are you going to speak it too?
Are they still Jews? Yes.
Unless the parents and great grand parents have completely erased any jewish tradition, which is actually pretty significant (like Christmas), then the later generations probably won't even know of their Jewish heritage.
If you know you are jewish and your parents know you are jewish, but you moved to America, then of course it is important to know your culture and at least the basics of Hebrew.
On the other hand, if your great great great grand parents are jewish, but they stopped following the jewish tradition and have converted to christianity or whatever, and the later generations are taught to be christian, then no I don't expect you to know hebrew.
Now we're starting branching off. Culture is not something people "accept" blindly, culture is the history of our people. You don't need to follow it, but you need to know it. Just like how I see native languages.
I am a Canadian born Hong Kong-nese (my parents are chinese), and having lived the majority of my current life in Hong Kong (which is a relatively westernized city in comparison to the rest of China), I am brought up in a relatively westernized culture, having gone to international schools etc. I do not follow chinese culture strictly (chinese medicine etc.), however, I am quite familiar with the chinese culture. I speak English a lot better than I can speak Cantonese. In fact, my cantonese level is at best that of a 7th grade student. Why do I still bother with cantonese? It's because no matter what "culture" I'm brought up in, my race is not any different. I choose to recognize my own culture. You may have a different opinion, which I disagree, but I understand.
I'll repeat, it is mainly based on your family and how far down the line your family goes in terms of your culture and ethnicity. If your family is of a particular culture and have followed that culture for several generations, then you should continue to acknowledge this culture and pass it on. On the other hand, if your family have not followed a particular culture, and have had offsprings of mixed ethinicity, then it depends on what your parents currently follow as a tradition. Of course, you still need to recognize the cultural background your parents came from, but you only necessarily need to know the cultures your parents are currently following.
Speaking Hebrew? No need. But they should celebrate Hanukkah due to tradition. AND THAT IS FLAMINGDTS POINT.
I don't understand why you must take such an aggressive approach.
I'm assuming you are a German living in Britain. Your skin color is not considerably different and if you can speak perfect English then most people probably won't recognize you as a German, so this doesn't affect you as much.
I don't understand why you continue to argue and claim yourself as another race. I absolutely understand if you want to debate on the importance of learning your own native language, but it's no debate that you're not racially British no matter how you see yourself as.
If you like to call my opinion stupid, so be it. I don't necessarily need to see your position as the one and only right one. Like I said, it is not wrong if you see yourself British, but it is wrong if you don't consider yourself German (If that is where you're from).
Furthermore, I believe it is important for people to know their own native language because it isn't just culture, but none of your future generations will know that language (unless you move back to your own home country, in which case you cannot communciate with it). At this current economic world we're living in, it becomes increasingly competitive. In the future, English might not even be the most spoken language in the world. Bottomline is, I consider it a pathetic thing to do to reject your own culture and tradition and race and claim yourself as another race. Of course, you can consider yourself half British or whatever because you were born there, but in no way are you a full British or will ever be one.
Human to human total genetic variation is approximately 0.5%.
Damnit, I have to agree with Nuri.
Also how would you reconcile your position with people of mixed race Azner? If I'm 1/4 Japanese, 1/4 Indian, 1/4 Zulu, 1/4 French and live in Quebec how many languages do I need to speak? Five or six? Where does identifying more with the culture of your ancestors than the one you inhabit end?
Damnit, I have to agree with Nuri.
Also how would you reconcile your position with people of mixed race Azner? If I'm 1/4 Japanese, 1/4 Indian, 1/4 Zulu, 1/4 French and live in Quebec how many languages do I need to speak? Five or six? Where does identifying more with the culture of your ancestors than the one you inhabit end?
To say you need to know some language and culture because your black, yellow, brown, pink or whatever skin colour is called RACISM.
No it is not racism, at least not negative stereotyping. Tell me, is it racist if I assumed that mexican across the street follows a mexican tradition and speaks Spanish? Everyone in this world will be labelled as racist (we're all a little racist inside anyways). By the way, It isn't racist to say "you should know" your culture and tradition because you are african/chinese/german etc.
You and Rico failed to understand my point. I am not reinforcing stereotyping, I am merely stating the importance (In my opinion) of knowing your own tradition and culture. To elabourate further, knowing the tradition that your parents and your grandparents followed and passed on. The racial outburst I threw in earlier regarding Asian mathematical capabilities is only used to point out a flaw in a statement, not to reinforce it.
Edit: I'm going to throw it out there, but intelligence is genetic as well.
There are too many responses to reply to, so I'll sum it all up.
As I mentioned before, it depends on the generations, and what your parents and grandparents follow. If your grandparents follow a particular tradition, your parents will most likely follow that too, and then you will at most be left with two traditions (mom and dad) to have to follow, respect, and pass on.
I hear a song.
It goes Feliz Navidad.
Judaism is a religion, not a culture. Hebrew would be part of a Jews culture.Speaking Hebrew? No need. But they should celebrate Hanukkah due to tradition. AND THAT IS FLAMINGDTS POINT.
Yes that is exactly what racism is. You don't have to say anything negative to be racist, racism is the act of looking at someone and determining something about them based on the color of their skin. That "mexican" guy down the street is probably NOT mexican. He could be from guatemala, or chile, or peru, or venezuela, or argentina... he could be from anywhere in the world. By assuming he "needs to know about Mexican culture because he looks Mexican" is as racist as saying he should be good at building porches because he looks like a Mexican.
The whole point is that people are people, and that the color of someone's skin is NOT a way to tell anything about said person. That is EXACTLY what racism is.
If I assumed a mexican guy should know spanish, it isn't racist, it's an assumption. In fact, it's the basic assumption that we all have.
So maybe its just you after all.
Not me. My only general assumption is that they speak English, because I live in the U.S. I wouldn't assume another nationality knows a different language, and I can't think of a time where I ever have thought something like that in my life. I've met plenty of asians, Puerto Ricans, mexicans, spaniards (****ing love that name, so badass), and etc that only knew english.
So maybe its just you after all.
Come on you're telling me now that never in you life have you assumed that mexican guy across the street speaks Spanish? You've never assumed anyone of a different nationality to know their native language when you see or speak to them in your life?
Why the **** would you assume that? I might think, "It's probably more likely that he speaks spanish than hebrew, but I don't have enough evidence to conclude he speaks either" but I'm not going to think "Mexican, he speaks spanish lol".