Girl help...

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

I could make this a huge post, but I am just going to ask a simple question. What is a good way to let her know that I like her without just telling her I do? Or a few good ways to see if she has any interest in me at all.

Gunner · Oct 17, 2004

Ask her out, talk to her, etc...

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

CB | Para said:
Ask her out, talk to her, etc...

Somthing a little less blunt than just asking her out.

moppe · Oct 17, 2004

Say "Hi" to her, in school.
I'm guessing that is the situation.

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

moppe said:
Say "Hi" to her, in school.
I'm guessing that is the situation.

I work with her, and have a class in 1st hour with her.

moppe · Oct 17, 2004

Foxtrot said:
I work with her, and have a class in 1st hour with her.

A nice "Hi" and a smile will do then.

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

moppe said:
A nice "Hi" and a smile will do then.

Sounds too simple...

Fat Tony! · Oct 17, 2004

Perhaps trying to flirt with her?

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

Fat Tony! said:
Perhaps trying to flirt with her?

How???

Sprafa · Oct 17, 2004

Foxtrot said:
How???

So you want to make her like you before she meets you ?

Suggestion : Get her cell phone number and start sending eloquent SMS's. If she's old style, get her flowers or something.

ComradeBadger · Oct 17, 2004

Or just start a random conversation

Best way to get someone's attention/interest

DiSTuRbEd · Oct 17, 2004

Throw big rocks at her.

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

I start random conversations with her, she laughs at funny things I say, and is usually interested in what I say...but I don't know if she likes me at all.

oldagerocker · Oct 17, 2004

that means she likes you dude, atleast on one level, which is a great start. what your looking for is, direct eye contact, smiles, playing with hair, generally good body langauge - ie, legs open and pointed towards you. If shes interested in you, you'll know. Unless she's a flirt with everyone, but your over the first hurdle :thumbs:

Gunner · Oct 17, 2004

Sprafa said:
Suggestion : Get her cell phone number and start sending eloquent SMS's. If she's old style, get her flowers or something.

Fox don't do that^^.

Sprafa · Oct 17, 2004

CB | Para said:
Fox don't do that^^.

Never take advices from me.

Foxtrot · Oct 17, 2004

oldagerocker said:
that means she likes you dude, atleast on one level, which is a great start. what your looking for is, direct eye contact, smiles, playing with hair, generally good body langauge - ie, legs open and pointed towards you. If shes interested in you, you'll know. Unless she's a flirt with everyone, but your over the first hurdle :thumbs:

That is good, only problem is that I think she might have a boyfriend. I thought I knew her pretty well but her friend asked her if her boyfriend called her and she laughed like it was a joke, I think that means she doesn't have one...but I could be wrong.

Shuzer · Oct 17, 2004

Just walk up to her and say:

"You're hot and I feel great, let's get married!"

Gunner · Oct 17, 2004

Don't do that either!

Yuri · Oct 17, 2004

Shuzer said:
"You're hot and I feel great, let's get married!"

"Okay, but I want to see kids!"

"Yeeahh! Babies EVERYWHERE!!!"

simmo · Oct 17, 2004

Erestheux said:
"Okay, but I want to see kids!"

"Yeeahh! Babies EVERYWHERE!!!"

"I FEEL GREAT!!!"

PvtRyan · Oct 17, 2004

If you're one of those old classic romantic types:

Hit her on the head with a big rock, and drag her by her hair to your cave. Succes guaranteed.

Disclaimer: succes actually not guaranteed. May cause a painful relationship with a big black guy in prison called Tyrone.

Sprafa · Oct 17, 2004

Foxtrot said:
That is good, only problem is that I think she might have a boyfriend. I thought I knew her pretty well but her friend asked her if her boyfriend called her and she laughed like it was a joke, I think that means she doesn't have one...but I could be wrong.

Be right about it before you even think about trying anything.

And that is good advice.

f|uke · Oct 17, 2004

The only way to get a girl is to go out on a limb. You can not get a girl worth getting while staying in your "safe zone".

If you are weak, akward, shy, defencive, quiet, or even just too damned tenative, you do not have a chance.

By the same note, if you are too eager you will not have a chance.

You need to have confidence. And confidence is not knowing that she'll say yes. Confidence is being sure of yourself, and keeping your head up high, even if she says no.

My advice, if you're unsure, ask her if she has a boyfriend. If she says no, ask her out right there. Dont overthink it, dont make it complicated or worry about saying it "just right". Just DO IT.

You can sit there and wonder or worry, but its not going to make your odds any better. She probably already knows if she would date you or not. SO JUST FIND OUT. There is no shame in being rejected, my friend. Rejection is inevitable on the path to acceptance.

Kristafon · Oct 17, 2004

The problem is with just asking out willy nilly is that then you will have to be near them, all the time they know that you like them but they dont like you. I would imagine that would be very embarrassing. Obviously this is worse if you got to school or work where that person is.
The thought of the embassment of being rejected is terrible, especially if you found out afterwards that the person was completely unatainable and you are turned into a joke.

SupremePain · Oct 17, 2004

walk up to her, look into in her eyes.... and start rubbing your nipples and going "uh, im a sexy man beast"

nah.... does she look at you for awhile and smile or any other of those "i like you, come over here" signals? if so then you have to move quickly because girls hate waiting

i pretty much agree with f|uke ask her about the boyfriend and stuff

Kristafon · Oct 17, 2004

SupremePain said:
nah.... does she look at you for awhile and smile or any other of those "i like you, come over here" signals? if so then you have to move quickly because girls hate waiting
QUOTE]

That's anouther problem! How do you know if she is genuienly dropping a hint or if you are just being optimisitc overly.
Write a song about her and preform it infont of everyone one.
Hmm... anyway im in basically in the same dilema as this guy.

Lil' Timmy · Oct 17, 2004

f|uke is right, stop pussy-footing it. just ask her if you can take her out for dinner and a movie. simple as that. if she asks if you're asking her out on a date, say yes. if she already likes you, just be yourself and hope for the best. either she'll do it or she won't. you're not going to trick her into going out with you, nor would you want to. good luck.

oldagerocker · Oct 17, 2004

It doesnt matter if she has a boyfriend, sure if she does have a seriuos one, you won't be getting with her any time soon.
But :
a) she'll have hot single friends and
b) your make a great mate, and your stop fancying her eventually if thats all its going to be.

If her bf isnt that serious, they wont last forever you she'll be yours

So pull on the charm offensive and go for it, be yourself. She likes you already, you cant go wrong.

Adrien C · Oct 17, 2004

Brag about you post count on Hl2.net

Seriously, the best thing, is just talk, and allways look into her eyes, allways. And listen to her, woman like to be listen to. Little by little.

jaguar_987 · Oct 17, 2004

oldagerocker said:
that means she likes you dude, atleast on one level, which is a great start. what your looking for is, direct eye contact, smiles, playing with hair, generally good body langauge - ie, legs open and pointed towards you. If shes interested in you, you'll know. Unless she's a flirt with everyone, but your over the first hurdle :thumbs:

This man knows his stuff, have a cookie

Body language works wonders at finding out whether a girl likes you or not. Oh and if she touches you often while with her, 99% of the time she's yours lol

Ghost Freeman · Oct 17, 2004

Foxtrot said:
I could make this a huge post, but I am just going to ask a simple question. What is a good way to let her know that I like her without just telling her I do? Or a few good ways to see if she has any interest in me at all.

Flowers.

SubKamran · Oct 17, 2004

ComradeBadger said:
Or just start a random conversation

Best way to get someone's attention/interest

Thank you. :cheers:

That's how you meet people. Find similar interests and be sweet, they love that.

Ikerous · Oct 17, 2004

SubKamran said:
That's how you meet people. Find similar interests and be sweet, they love that.

Oh crap, is that how you
Are supposed to do it..?
I was just going up to ppl
And socking them in the face
No wonder i'm friendless

SubKamran · Oct 17, 2004

Ikerous said:
Oh crap, is that how you
Are supposed to do it..?
I was just going up to ppl
And socking them in the face
No wonder i'm friendless

You are in a poetic mood tonight? :burp:

By the way, here are some other tips on how to find out if a girl digs you without making it obvious:

If she looks at you a lot (especially if she smiles).
If she smiles at you, period. And not while talking, just randomly.
Wink at her once while she's looking and if she smiles or blushes she's probably into you. (I've done it before, it works

)

But like I said, most girls aren't into guys until they get to know them better. It's the younger girls who are into "crushes" because they have nothing better to do. Most people nowadays are so crammed with homework or stuff to do they don't care or don't take notice of guys unless they talk to them.

And, there are a LOT of places for coffee or a bite to eat where you work, ask if she'd like to have some lunch. Then make small talk.

Ikerous · Oct 17, 2004

I've been posting like this
For over a month now...
I'm far too lazy to write
Up a poem for each post
I'm just raelly good friends
With Mr. Enter key.

Foxtrot · Oct 18, 2004

I worked with her tonight but I was too much of a pussy to say anything to her. Although one thing I did notice, she smiled at me a lot. Oh, and a problem about asking her out on a date is that I don't have a car...so she would have to pick me up...seems kind of weird asking someone on a date and then having them pick you up.

SpuD · Oct 18, 2004

Foxtrot said:
I worked with her tonight but I was too much of a pussy to say anything to her. Although one thing I did notice, she smiled at me a lot. Oh, and a problem about asking her out on a date is that I don't have a car...so she would have to pick me up...seems kind of weird asking someone on a date and then having them pick you up.

Yeah, that would be weak.
Get a car.

Tr0n · Oct 18, 2004

Foxtrot said:
I worked with her tonight but I was too much of a pussy to say anything to her. Although one thing I did notice, she smiled at me a lot. Oh, and a problem about asking her out on a date is that I don't have a car...so she would have to pick me up...seems kind of weird asking someone on a date and then having them pick you up.

Yep...it's the guy that has to pick the girl up.So you better get a car.

blahblahblah · Oct 18, 2004

Foxtrot said:
I worked with her tonight but I was too much of a pussy to say anything to her. Although one thing I did notice, she smiled at me a lot. Oh, and a problem about asking her out on a date is that I don't have a car...so she would have to pick me up...seems kind of weird asking someone on a date and then having them pick you up.

What with people liking somebody but being too scared to talk to them? I'm no casanova, but talk to them, that will work. How do you know if you even like them if you can't even talk to them? Yikes.

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