How would you describe love?

Farrowlesparrow said:
My friend was born premature, and he always makes the joke about "I was born early, and I've been later ever since".

Hes a funny guy, pretty intelligent. He had a tough time, but hes come out of school on top... all along I knew he was the "cool" one, and now that has become obvious to world, and not just me. I wouldn't say he was behind in any way at all really.
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but you did say he had a tough time in school ...do you know why?
 
Its hard to explain, you had to live through it really. Mostly its because hes very much his own character, and "popular" people aren't used to that. Also some people in the year above,who were basically annoying scum to everyone, gave my friend a particularlly tough time because he always poked fun at them. One time, someone from the year above had my friend pushed up against the wall and tried hitting him, so my friend said
"Hey, you take steroids don't you?"
"Yeah... So what?" said the other guy
"So doesn't that mean you've got a tiny little cock" *waving his little finger as a demonstration*

:laugh: He got punched for that, but I think he thought it was worth it.
 
hmmm a social misfit who enjoys a beating ...oh my what have I gotten myself into? ;)
 
Hes not a social misfit though. He can be quite an endearing person, but sometimes people misunderstand hes sense of humour.

People who take steroids for those sorts of reasons make me laugh...
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
Hes not a social misfit though. He can be quite an endearing person, but sometimes people misunderstand hes sense of humour.

People who take steroids for those sorts of reasons make me laugh...
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hey that sounds like me ...except for the steroids :)
 
how would you know? you've never met me ...or have you? .............bob?
 
I spent it on cheap crack whores.

You ain't gettin' it back.
 
Theres some baaaaad blood in this fight ladies and gentlemen...
Round 1.... FIGHT!

I just mixed boxing and Mortal Kombat. I r ashamed. :o
 
PvtRyan said:
He can share his HIV with you for FREE!
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condoms dear PvtRyan!! a full body suit worth of condoms


Tr0n: I wasnt married when you went on that crack-whore binge!
 
Well...yea...

You shoulda just asked, but you was too caught up in some political arguement with an american about how much the us goverment sucks.So I didn't want to bother you...

:P
 
hmmm I have no one to blame but myself .......rats
 
/me adds one more tally to his pwned sheet

Well be happy...at least you're married. :(

/me cries
 
you're too young to be thinking that way ...quantity my young friend ...you have time for quality later in life ...as my religious friends are fond of saying "go forth and multiply young Tr0n"
 
I just want 1. :(

I'm tired of going through girls constantly.
 
tired? man o man ..that's the fun of it all ...no commitment, no responsibility ...just happy horny people :)
 
Yeah stern, not everyone is out to be a comradebadger with women.

Some people just want one person to stick with. Loneliness is not freedom... And lonliness is all I see in short term relationships. I prefer closeness of emotion to sexual satisfction personally. In fact for me, it makes it all the more fun :naughty: I've found with that sort of bond, you can do things you wouldn't dare do otherwise...

But my mind, is not yours and so we both desire different things. I'm not saying I'm better...even though clearly I are the greetest! Muhahahaha. And now I am leave forever for no raison.
 
the thing was that I was never lonely ...you always have people to go out with and women appreciate honesty which went a long way in them trusting me ...besides some women only want sex and arent all that interested in a relationship
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
Yeah stern, not everyone is out to be a comradebadger with women.

Some people just want one person to stick with. Loneliness is not freedom... And lonliness is all I see in short term relationships. I prefer closeness of emotion to sexual satisfction personally. In fact for me, it makes it all the more fun :naughty: I've found with that sort of bond, you can do things you wouldn't dare do otherwise...

But my mind, is not yours and so we both desire different things. I'm not saying I'm better...even though clearly I are the greetest! Muhahahaha. And now I am leave forever for no raison.
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Exactly.

I feel more lonely going through girls like that... :( I ain't some horny guy looking to get laid.
 
hehe it's not about getting laid ..it's about experiencing people (in more ways than one) ...too many of my friends got married to their first girlfriend ..and almost half of them are now divorced ..the other half are going through mid-life crisis early in life
 
CptStern said:
hehe it's not about getting laid ..it's about experiencing people (in more ways than one) ...too many of my friends got married to their first girlfriend ..and almost half of them are now divorced ..the other half are going through mid-life crisis early in life
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Maybe you just have as different mind set. I'm not marrying the first girl I "went out with" or had a crush on, shes long gone... but I'm also not the kind of person to want to experience people like that. I just feel like when you break up, you lose a part of yourself with that person that you never get back, and although you can still live a happy life its never quite the same after you've lost that.

Its not always easy for me to explain the thought process that goes on in my head, but basically.. I am who I am, I like what I like, and I'm going to do what I'm going to do. You live life how you want to, I live it how I want to :) I think you can do things better, and you think the same of me... So lets just leave it at that :D
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
Maybe you just have as different mind set. I'm not marrying the first girl I "went out with" or had a crush on, shes long gone... but I'm also not the kind of person to want to experience people like that. I just feel like when you break up, you lose a part of yourself with that person that you never get back, and although you can still live a happy life its never quite the same after you've lost that.

Its not always easy for me to explain the thought process that goes on in my head, but basically.. I am who I am, I like what I like, and I'm going to do what I'm going to do. You live life how you want to, I live it how I want to :) I think you can do things better, and you think the same of me... So lets just leave it at that :D
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but breaking up with people is actually quite healthy ...it's only when you're outside of the relationship can you look back clearly ...I usually realised that I didnt really love the person
 
Would it be healthy if you broke up with your wife?

I'm just not the same person as you, I treat relationships differently. I know what you're saying, especially about not loving someone. In fact, my girlfriend broke up with me, and that taught us both how much we do love each other. So...I'm sticking with her thanks :)
 
Farrowlesparrow said:
Would it be healthy if you broke up with your wife?
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that's not the same thing ...we have far more invested in our relationship ...not to mention we have children together

Farrowlesparrow said:
I'm just not the same person as you, I treat relationships differently. I know what you're saying, especially about not loving someone. In fact, my girlfriend broke up with me, and that taught us both how much we do love each other. So...I'm sticking with her thanks :)
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dont mistake dating many people with not having self-respect or respect for the other person ..I never intentionally decieved someone


my point is that you never know what life will throw at you ...for all you know you may not find true love till you're in your 50's ...if at all
 
Farrowlesparrow is right, look in my sig, for some people they can't handle any sort of "meaningful" relationship and only want sex, other people really don't want sex at all and just want a friend.

Love is a very varied thing in my opinion, it is by no means the same for the next person, love is a mental thing rather than instinctual, as varied as taste in art.
 
Then again, you may find it while you're still just an immature 19 year old who finds it hard to tell love and feeling happy in his trousers, apart. I believe I have found it. In fact, I'm so sure of it..I don't even feel the need to explain myself, or prove it. I'm quite happy if nobody believes me but her....

I didn't suggest thats what you were saying by the way, though a lot of people are like that and I think thats a big reason why so many people are cynical, and emotionally void.

Heh, recoil agreeing with me :D I'm in between somewhere. I still want sex, but I want emotional closeness more than anything.


Thats a very good way of describing love actually.
 
yes but how do you it's true love if you've only ever loved one person?
 
On topic:
Love isnt just a romantic thing for me, I also love many of my friends. With this in mind, heres my definition of love: the condition in which another's happiness directly affects your own.
 
CptStern said:
yes but how do you it's true love if you've only ever loved one person?
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Maybe farrow has loved more than one girl before?
 
Who says I have.
(Edit: Tr0n :D)
Like I said, we broke up and got back together on far more sild ground. Thats how I know. Its different for everyone...


spooky, now you're talking about love as is with a descriptive word attached. I.e. Brotherly love.
 
CptStern said:
yes but how do you it's true love if you've only ever loved one person?
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Describe true love.....
I think it would be possible to tell with only one person, i mean even in my life i can tell what love is, and i just don't have it for anyone.
If he's that keen to keep it going so much it looks like he is either in love or one of these wierd obsessive people.
 
Everyone goes through their own experiences in life...so saying they haven't found true love or some shit like that is well...bullshit.

Everyone leads different lives and experiences them different.So don't be so quick to judge...
 
short recoil said:
Describe true love.....
I think it would be possible to tell with only one person, i mean even in my life i can tell what love is, and i just don't have it for anyone.
If he's that keen to keep it going so much it looks like he is either in love or one of these wierd obsessive people.
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Yeah... and I think tis safe to say I'm not a creepy obsessed person, because when it came down to it I was willing to let her go when I thought it was the right thing to do. Someone quoted something to me. It goes something like this...

If you truly love them, you have to let them go. If they come back, then the love is mutual and true. If they don't. Then they were never yours to love in the first place.
 
Like how an amazing kiss feels after a week or two of not seeing the one your with, but all the time :)
 
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