I can't believe I'm actually going here, but yeah..

[Slacker]

..I need girl advice. There, I said it.

Ok, so a few weeks ago I met one of my best friend's sisters. She's my age, she goes to a different school, but yeah, basically we really clicked.

THE PROBLEM?!(other than the fact that she's a friend's sister and that's really kind of awkward). She has a boyfriend, and they've been going out for about seven months, nearing eight if I recall correctly. The thing is, since she met me, she's been spending more time with me than with him.

Ok, so I knew we were friends, but last thursday she came over with a bunch of other friends for my birthday, and we all walked down to a park near my house around midnight-ish. Then my friends, just to be funny/jackass-y, ditched us in the middle of the park, and after just chilling for awhile, we went to walk home. Now one path to get to my house from this park is a large woods, which at night is creepy as hell. She told me she really wanted to walk through it, and we ended up holding hands as we walked, and we stayed like this until arrrouuund the time we got home (her dad drove by, that was kind of awkward). She sat on my lap for a long period of time that night, too, if that means anything. She also told me a few nights ago that she may be having second thoughts about her boyfriend, since they haven't seen each other in so long, and she's worried she won't get her feelings back when they see each other again.

I don't know what to do though, I feel like I should make a move, but on the otherhand I feel like I should wait it out. Either way, this whole situation has been driving me sorta nuts lately.

anywayyy, yourrr advice please!

 

[PvtRyan]

 

[Thunderclap]

Finish the job.

In all honesty, it seems everything's working out fine. Just keep doing what you're doing, nothing overt, but don't shun her, and all should fall into place eventually.

 

[Que-Ever]

Ok, the main point, first and foremost, is to be in this mindset- "**** her boyfriend". He means nothing. Especially if you're bigger than him. Keep this chick away from the other dude, find him and tell him to **** off, kill him, whatever. Whichever way you go about it, getting rid of this other douche is the key.

 

[Jangle]

Sex her.

Actually, no. Talk to her about it. Maybe ask her what she'd do if you made a move, as if you're just joking around.

edit: Que, I'd hate to get between you and a lady.

 

[Shamrock]

Ok, the main point, first and foremost, is to be in this mindset- "**** her boyfriend". He means nothing. Especially if you're bigger than him. Keep this chick away from the other dude, find him and tell him to **** off, kill him, whatever. Whichever way you go about it, getting rid of this other douche is the key.

Hahahah at "the other douche."

 

[Absinthe]

I really whish women would come right out and say "**** me" instead of doing the bizarre, cryptic, hand-holding cuddlebitch routine.

 

[tehsolace]

its the classic situation.

at least shes told you that shes having second thoughts about her boyfriend. i think you need to step back, and tell her that youre really into her (or whatever you want to say) and tell her that if she feels the same way that she either needs to break up with her boyfriend or you two need to take it back to strict friends.

you dont want to be the one someone else's girlfriend is cheating on with...

 

[Evo]

When the perfect moment happens, standing together looking up at the stars gently kiss her on the lips.

Then again the method suggested by PvtRyan is also very :naughty:

 

[Ennui]

i agree with tehsolace. i think you should go for it, since she's hinting that she likes you and not her boyfriend (SUCKS to be him), but be clear about it. say "alright, there's chemistry between us, and i like you and i want to step it up, but you have to either break up with your boyfriend or us as strict friends".

if she says she'll break up with him, that's when you kiss her and grab her boobies.

 

[Que-Ever]

Que, I'd hate to get between you and a lady.

You would have no testicles left. You might try to keep some, but you would fail. And then, I would have your testicles.

 

[tehsolace]

i agree with tehsolace. i think you should go for it, since she's hinting that she likes you and not her boyfriend (SUCKS to be him), but be clear about it. say "alright, there's chemistry between us, and i like you and i want to step it up, but you have to either break up with your boyfriend or us as strict friends".

if she says she'll break up with him, that's when you kiss her and grab her boobies.

LOL @ the detailed instructions

i think that would actually work and be romantic if he did that at just the moment she says "ok ill break up with him", though

 

[StardogChampion]

Stay away from her. She has a boyfriend. If you kiss her then it makes you an asshole. Good day, sir.

 

[Jangle]

Stay away from her. She has a boyfriend. If you kiss her then it makes you an asshole. Good day, sir.

I dunno about that, but you've got to feel sorry for her boyfriend, even if it's not your fault that she doesn't like him anymore.

 

[Ennui]

LOL @ the detailed instructions

i think that would actually work and be romantic if he did that at just the moment she says "ok ill break up with him", though

it definitely would work, girls love that kind of shit

also i kinda agree with Stardog, it's kind of twattish to steal someone's girlfriend, i don't think he'd be pleased (for instance, I would probably punch you in the face rather hard if you did that to me, but hey that's just me), so maybe keeping it on the d/l for a few weeks would be a good idea.

and remember if she did it to him it could happen to you. i hate to lay that on you but it's true.

 

[Slacker]

it definitely would work, girls love that kind of shit

also i kinda agree with Stardog, it's kind of twattish to steal someone's girlfriend, i don't think he'd be pleased (for instance, I would probably punch you in the face rather hard if you did that to me, but hey that's just me), so maybe keeping it on the d/l for a few weeks would be a good idea.

and remember if she did it to him it could happen to you. i hate to lay that on you but it's true.

I'm not going to steal her from him, but to be honest, he's not exactly mr. charming himself. He lied to her face about how he was a drug-user, and I have no respect for that...

 

[Que-Ever]

Now that I think about it, what is it with people and coming here for help with their love lives? This is an internet forum. About a video game. I dunno what kind of help people think they'll get here- kill him, grab boobs, hide in the corner, etc. The only person on here who ever gets any sex is Comradebadger, and everyone knows he's just a robot created to drive me insane and then kill me slowly.

 

[Slacker]

Now that I think about it, what is it with people and coming here for help with their love lives? This is an internet forum. About a video game. I dunno what kind of help people think they'll get here- kill him, grab boobs, hide in the corner, etc. The only person on here who ever gets any sex is Comradebadger, and everyone knows he's just a robot created to drive me insane and then kill me slowly.

1. Advice is cool.
2. Work is boring so I figured I may as well post it.

 

[Ennui]

The only person on here who ever gets any sex is Comradebadger, and everyone knows he's just a robot created to drive me insane and then kill me slowly.

whoa now, speak for yourself. the robot part is true probably though.

and slacker, even if he's an ass, it's still not cool to take his girlfriend.

i am also at work and also bored which is why im posting in an inane girl thread like this.

don't become the new garfield_ lol

 

[Glirk Dient]

She is definately into you. However do not ask her out or make a move like that until she has broken up with her BF first. Keep flirting and hanging out with her so she becomes more interested in you and less interested in her BF. Beware though as it may only be a rut. If she cheats on her bf with you then that is a hint. It will happen to you. Understand that.

You have a pretty dang good chance, just don't act too desperate or become obsessed with her as those can/will ruin your chance. Just been cool and hang out with her and soon enough she will tell you one day she broke up with her BF. Don't ask her out right away, give it some time. Try to pay attention to the signals she sends and decide when would be best. If you want anything more specific just ask away, i can type forever about this kind of stuff.

 

[PvtRyan]

Now that I think about it, what is it with people and coming here for help with their love lives? This is an internet forum. About a video game. I dunno what kind of help people think they'll get here- kill him, grab boobs, hide in the corner, etc.

You forgot rape.

 

[Slacker]

don't become the new garfield_ lol

dude, I won't. Like I said, boredome leads to strange things, and making inane threads is one of em.

 

[Vass]

Congrats, Slacker. At least you're getting some wimmin action. I've'nt got a gf

 

[Que-Ever]

whoa now, speak for yourself. the robot part is true probably though.

Men do not count D:

Yeah, comradebadger is a robot. He's a sex machine.

 

[tehsolace]

1. Advice is cool.
2. Work is boring so I figured I may as well post it.

#2 is my excuse for coming here

 

[Ennui]

me too, i get paid for posting on halflife2.net because i don't do shit else at work (except play Dead Rising, woooooo)

 

[Solaris]

Right, first off, she's your best freinds sister. No way, if you at all respect your freind you should at the very least ask him asap. If he is reluctant respect that and do not follow it through.

If your best freinds okay with it then go ahead, she obviously likes you.

 

[tehsolace]

Right, first off, she's your best freinds sister. No way, if you at all respect your freind you should at the very least ask him asap. If he is reluctant respect that and do not follow it through.

If your best freinds okay with it then go ahead, she obviously likes you.

thats a good point i didnt even notice that in the original post.

you should ask your best friend if its okay first...

and be ****ing sure that you wanna go farther than friends with her, because if you mess things up with her then you could lose your best friend too.

 

[Slacker]

I've already told him, and he says that he really doesn't care.

 

[Absinthe]

Stay away from her. She has a boyfriend. If you kiss her then it makes you an asshole. Good day, sir.

Truth.

I don't care if the boyfriend is Supreme Jackass of the universe. She has, for whatever reason, decided to keep him as a boyfriend for the time being. If she wants to jump in the sheets with you so bad, then it's her responsibility to break up with him first. Screwing around behind somebody's back is shitty no matter who is involved, and violent reprecussions aside, nobody likes being the guy or girl on the side.

The factor of her being your friend's sister is just wierd. Just depends to which extent the "guy code" applies to you. As well as wether or not he can stomach the thought of you thrusting your sweaty rod of man-flesh into her night after night.

 

[Slacker]

Truth.

I don't care if the boyfriend is Supreme Jackass of the universe. She has, for whatever reason, decided to keep him as a boyfriend for the time being. If she wants to jump in the sheets with you so bad, then it's her responsibility to break up with him first. Screwing around behind somebody's back is shitty no matter who is involved, and violent reprecussions aside, nobody likes being the guy or girl on the side.

Yeah, I know. Like I said (or maybe I didn't say it, I don't quite remember) I'm not going to do anything past flirting until she actually breaks up with him. Then again, one of my friend's already said that just us holding hands ment she was "cheating."

But annnywayyy...

 

[Absinthe]

Holding hands isn't cheating. Of course some boyfriends find that reason enough to beat the ever-living crap out of a guy.

 

[Ennui]

its not cheating, though it sure as hell would bother me if i was her boyfriend

 

[tehsolace]

Holding hands isn't cheating. Of course some boyfriends find that reason enough to beat the ever-living crap out of a guy.

id consider it cheating if i found my girlfriend doing it.

 

[Absinthe]

id consider it cheating if i found my girlfriend doing it.

Is there penetration of any orifice? Tongues mingling among fellow tongues? Sexually provocative?

I'll admit that it's skimming. It can be suggestive and I don't think male indignation is unwarranted (depending on the context). But to call it cheating is a pretty big stretch IMO.

 

[Slacker]

(This kind of reminds me of the foot massage discussion in Pulp Fiction, just sayin')

 

[Ennui]

stickin' yo tongue in the holiest of holies and rubbin' a girl's foot just ain't the same thing!

 

[Slacker]

nevermind, that joke was stupid.

 

[Que-Ever]

no dude, that joke was awesome. Fix it.

 

[Zeus]

Ok, the main point, first and foremost, is to be in this mindset- "**** her boyfriend". He means nothing. Especially if you're bigger than him. Keep this chick away from the other dude, find him and tell him to **** off, kill him, whatever. Whichever way you go about it, getting rid of this other douche is the key.

Bet you wouldn't feel the same way if you were that girls bf