I can't believe I'm actually going here, but yeah..

well, whining about being lonely and (as follows) probably desperate is one of the best ways to secure your future to be the same
 
I saw that coming :p
Yeah, I'm stuck in a rut what can I say.

Now, onto mister slacker's disposition here...I think Ennui and Absinthe said everything needed to be said with this issue. And I believe they're absolutely right. Maybe throw in a tell her how you feel and a do you feel the same way. See where it goes from there.
 
I would advise against becoming "the other man" in a relationship

Absinthe said:
The factor of her being your friend's sister is just wierd. Just depends to which extent the "guy code" applies to you.
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what is this "guy code", anyway?
 
But at least your female friend is pretty much saying "lol sex me". Apparently a lot of my female friends used to have feelings for me, but because 'I didn't strike at the right time' it's too late.

**** girls :(. Not litterally.
 
dekstar said:
But at least your female friend is pretty much saying "lol sex me".
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Meh, I'm still not totally sure about that. She may just be thinking "oohhh we're GOOD friends, we can flirt!"

Also, even if we DID go into some sort of relashonship, I wouldn't want it purely for sexual reasons. That'd be a first for me too :p.
 
dekstar said:
But at least your female friend is pretty much saying "lol sex me". Apparently a lot of my female friends used to have feelings for me, but because 'I didn't strike at the right time' it's too late.
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Same here. Not so much of a problem now, but there were apparently quite a few girls who fancied me through high school and I either was too dumb to pick up on the signals or would just chickenshit out.
 
Absinthe said:
Same here. Not so much of a problem now, but there were apparently quite a few girls who fancied me through high school and I either was too dumb to pick up on the signals or would just chickenshit out.
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I've been through that experience. Earlier this year I fell for a really good looking girl who played videogames profesionally, but obviously that meant that guys flocked all over her, so I was always too nervous to ask her out, but she admitted to me a couple of weeks ago that she had feelings for me too.

That made my self-confidence boost up pretty high, even if I felt like a total idiot for not making a move.
 
**** anyone's feelings but your own. They don't matter.

Go for what you want. She's showing signs of interest - just don't get too far into the friends zone (although even then all hope isn't lost.. It's only when you loose your confidence that it becomes a problem.
 
Like I would take advice from a ROBOT!

(Just kidding <3)
 
Slacker said:
Meh, I'm still not totally sure about that. She may just be thinking "oohhh we're GOOD friends, we can flirt!"
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Those kinds of relationships are the worstest :( Get me all confused.
 
I say wait it out until she's sure she wants to leave her bf. In the meanwhile, keep accepting her flirts and hang out with her. And if you really want, you can do something corny like eat icecream together or get her a bouquet of flowers (hand picked in the beginning maybe because if you give her roses in the beginning she might be a bit reluctant) while you're going to her house (if she told you to meet her there) or any other private place.

Oh and go to www.askmen.com for ze techniques :p
Or travel to ComradeBadger and plead for his secret ninja reproduction style
 
I'm just confident, and I know I'm attractive, funny etc..

:p

I'm being a good boy for a while.. well.. until thursday!
 
I know that I at least have a good personality. Looks though...ehhh...
 
Slacker said:
I know that I at least have a good personality. Looks though...ehhh...
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You automatically flourish after you get yourself a gf. You suddenly find yourself wading through your clothes, trying to find the perfect outfit.

Well, that's what happened to me the first few days. :p
 
Absinthe said:
Same here. Not so much of a problem now, but there were apparently quite a few girls who fancied me through high school and I either was too dumb to pick up on the signals or would just chickenshit out.
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happens for me too, soo typical
 
Slacker said:
I've been through that experience. Earlier this year I fell for a really good looking girl who played videogames profesionally, but obviously that meant that guys flocked all over her, so I was always too nervous to ask her out, but she admitted to me a couple of weeks ago that she had feelings for me too.

That made my self-confidence boost up pretty high, even if I felt like a total idiot for not making a move.
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oh shit son, i live real close to you, what's her name? :D
 
Absinthe said:
Is there penetration of any orifice? Tongues mingling among fellow tongues? Sexually provocative?

I'll admit that it's skimming. It can be suggestive and I don't think male indignation is unwarranted (depending on the context). But to call it cheating is a pretty big stretch IMO.
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It isn't cheating till somebody puts something inside of somebody elses sommmat :D
 
Let her know her bones make you jump a bit, and just wait for her and the boyfriend to end, if they don't, you don't get your ass beat. If they do, you win.

See! All works
 
Slacker said:
dana.

she plays Halo though :(.
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that at least means she knows what a game is

tell her there's this awesome place called gamefrog at northgate she should go to, and we'll coordinate it beforehand so im on shift.

note that im only half kidding.
 
Doesn't quite fit the situation, I guess, but here's an interesting trick I found.

When they ask you something along the lines of "Do you like me?", "Do you love me?" "Do you think we're pretty good friends?", just say no. In my experience, it actually attracts girls. They get intrigued, and want to try to win you over. Obviously you have to be at a certain point with them to start with, however. I discovered that quite by accident, by actually answering those questions honestly.
 
spookymooky said:
Doesn't quite fit the situation, I guess, but here's an interesting trick I found.

When they ask you something along the lines of "Do you like me?", "Do you love me?" "Do you think we're pretty good friends?", just say no. In my experience, it actually attracts girls. They get intrigued, and want to try to win you over. Obviously you have to be at a certain point with them to start with, however. I discovered that quite by accident, by actually answering those questions honestly.
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"Do you think we're pretty good friends? Do you like me? Do you love me???"

"...No..."

".......OH MY GOD I'M SO HOT FOR YOU SEX ME NOW!!!"


Yeah, I definately see how that would work. :rolleyes:
 
Well if her boyfriend is one of those huge football player guys who has the hottest chick in the school then i suggest no cause his gona castrate you.
However, if its someone that plays games, like us, dont worry, the dude will just go to one of his forums and cry out to all the people that some noob stole his girlfriend n shit and it HAPPENS to be this forum so you start flaming each other till you both get banned and everyone forgets about you as if nothnig happened...if not some dude puts ur flaming in quotes in their sigs

but hey, whats the chances of that happening?
 
Ravioli said:
Well if her boyfriend is one of those huge football player guys who has the hottest chick in the school then i suggest no cause his gona castrate you.
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Let me just say this in the kindest way I can:

He's not.
 
Wow, so yeah, she totally lied about calling me tonight.

(By the way, this is my new emo thread. Yay!)
 
If you're just a teen then i'd say go for it (after she's broken up with him of course).

I mean, what's the worst that could happen to you? Not to mention, you only get one shot at highschool. And after you graduate, you'll never see the bastards again!
 
I would normally give the same advice that others have given, namely wait until she breaks up with the other guy. Then again, when you're my age and think about this situation and how it ended up nowhere, I'd say follow Badgers advice and go for it.
 
God, I love these threads :p

Ontopic: The best advice has already been given: let her know about your feelings, and then wait till she breaks up with her boyfriend.

Then sechs her up.
 
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