I have never dated or slept with a pretty woman

[xC4RN4G3x]

u mean the game of f*cking people and throwing them away?

 

[poseyjmac]

u mean the game of f*cking people and throwing them away?

is there another one? :cheers:

 

[BabyHeadCrab]

fat chicks are supposed to be more fun

 

[xC4RN4G3x]

yeah....if u havnt heard about it...then thats pretty sad. it called getting a f*cken life.

 

[Foxtrot]

fat chicks are supposed to be more fun

No, fat chicks are just fatter.

 

[poseyjmac]

fat chicks are supposed to be more fun

thats what they think. but after a couple games of 'find the porkchop', i was not convinced.

 

[xC4RN4G3x]

alright this thread is offically useless. good luck dgenatron.

 

[poseyjmac]

alright this thread is offically useless. good luck dgenatron.

yes please go, your girly pouting is a disgrace to males everywhere. :cheers: :cheers:

 

[Murray_H]

Well it depends, how could I say no to having a relationship with a Victoria's Secret model?

Is that the sort of girl you want to get with? Model standard?

 

[Dgenatron]

dude, dgenatron just be a virgin until ur married. there is nothing wrong with that. if any of u f*cks out there say some shit i will f*cken rape ur skull and rip out ur voice box.

I don't plan to get married, so what you are saying I should do is to abstain from having sex for the rest of my life. I am sure that's fine with you, but unfortunately it is not fine with me.

I wonder if you noticed the irony of all this, on the one hand I have low self-esteem for bringing this up, on the other I have high self-esteem for not lowering myself to dating or having sex with an ugly woman.

 

[Lucid]

Jesus christ, You're not helping yourself by sitting around the computer waiting for replies on this topic man.

Go out to a public place, talk to some ladies, have fun.

 

[SimonomiS]

I have high self-esteem for not lowering myself to dating or having sex with an ugly woman.

I think you've gotten "having high self-esteem" confused with "being very shallow".

 

[poseyjmac]

ever consider a prostitute?

when you consider that men effectively 'pay' to get sex anyway, the fact that you are spending money isn't such a lowly act. men can give up far much more dignity paying in the form of time, compromised behaviour, and of course money(to pay for dates). and in the end for them its mostly about sex anyway.

my point is, every female is a hooker!

 

[ComradeBadger]

In fact, a lot of what everyone talks about is todo with background...

I'll explain if anyone cares.

 

[Dgenatron]

ever consider a prostitute?

when you consider that men effectively 'pay' to get sex anyway, the fact that you are spending money isn't such a lowly act. men can give up far much more dignity paying in the form of time, compromised behaviour, and of course money(to pay for dates). and in the end for them its mostly about sex anyway.

my point is, every female is a hooker!

Read my first post and then google that place in Nevada I mentioned.

 

[pomegranate]

You know my initial response to this thread was gonna be something like "Ya know, I'm in a similar situation, but why are you bothering to share this personal stuff with strangers, what's the point meant to be", but reading the above "I have self-esteeem for not lowering myself to dating or having sex with an ugly woman" makes me think that being overweight or having no personality is not your problem. It's that you're a sexist asshole who doesn't deserve to get close to any woman until you grow the hell up.

 

[Dgenatron]

I think you've gotten "having high self-esteem" confused with "being very shallow".

You got me on that one. I also don't have low self-esteem, I am just humble and self-conscious of my weaknesses.

Edit: ComradeBadger, so far all the moderators have given me good advice. I would like to hear what you have to say.

 

[DizzyOne]

You know my initial response to this thread was gonna be something like "Ya know, I'm in a similar situation, but why are you bothering to share this personal stuff with strangers, what's the point meant to be", but reading the above "I have self-esteeem for not lowering myself to dating or having sex with an ugly woman" makes me think that being overweight or having no personality is not your problem. It's that you're a sexist asshole who doesn't deserve to get close to any woman until you grow the hell up.

good someone said this
i didnt have the guts

 

[pomegranate]

good someone said this
i didnt have the guts

Guts? No, I'm just drunk. Time for bed!

 

[ComradeBadger]

You got me on that one. I also don't have low self-esteem, I am just humble and self-conscious of my weaknesses.

Edit: ComradeBadger, so far all the moderators have given me good advice. I would like to hear what you have to say.

I was going to stay out of this thread initially but hey

Right, a lot of how you personally should meet people is todo with your backgroud, the way you were raised. For example, a lot of the lads who I met in magaluf who went though the comprehenisve school system (and generally unstable family backgrounds) did very well with random girls - since they were all confidence in a certain way. However my group of friends coming from generally speaking stable family backgrounds did much better with girls we spoke to for a bit first and got to know a little, however when it came to working the clubs we didn't do as well - not everyone has the balls to go up to some girl and use a line and if it fails, just move on. There's different types of confidence.

I've never read any guide or any bollocks like that in my life, so I could well be talking out of my arse here: dress well, be yourself, be confident in who you are and don't let anyone put you down. Just pick up signs and shit and just don't be creepy.. be natural and at ease.

That's my advice - be prepared for rejection.. it's pretty easy to see a girl ain't interested in you - if not, it's her loss not yours.

 

[Skaadi]

No prostitutes!

 

[Dgenatron]

I was going to stay out of this thread initially but hey

Right, a lot of how you personally should meet people is todo with your backgroud, the way you were raised. For example, a lot of the lads who I met in magaluf who went though the comprehenisve school system (and generally unstable family backgrounds) did very well with random girls - since they were all confidence in a certain way. However my group of friends coming from generally speaking stable family backgrounds did much better with girls we spoke to for a bit first and got to know a little, however when it came to working the clubs we didn't do as well - not everyone has the balls to go up to some girl and use a line and if it fails, just move on. There's different types of confidence.

I've never read any guide or any bollocks like that in my life, so I could well be talking out of my arse here: dress well, be yourself, be confident in who you are and don't let anyone put you down. Just pick up signs and shit and just don't be creepy.. be natural and at ease.

That's my advice - be prepared for rejection.. it's pretty easy to see a girl ain't interested in you - if not, it's her loss not yours.

Thanks for your advise Super Moderator, but I have a hard time buying that "It's her loss not yours" bullshit. It is actually my loss, since I am the one who did not get what I was looking for. She didn't lose a thing, some guy she actually finds atractive will bang her all she wants, that's for sure.

I have rethought my life in the last 24 hours or so and I have reached a conclusion, I'll either save money and go to the Bunny Ranch or I will lose weight and bang a bimbo.

That's it. Thanks a lot everyone, I am much wiser now.

 

[Latin_Jones]

Confidence is the most important thing. Girls want a guy that can &$% good....pardon the language but it's the damned truth...If you have confidence and give the impression that you know how to get down with your bad self, then you will get their attention.

Be cocky, arrogant, and treat all women like shit. Even your mom. (joke! being a little cocky will do just fine.)

If you walk around all day feeling sorry for yourself and moping around they aren't going to want anything to do with you.

So seriously, have confidence stupid.

Just like my dad used to say. "if you $^&% them good enough they'll never forget you."

 

[DiSTuRbEd]

No prostitutes!

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

 

[Dgenatron]

Confidence is the most important thing. Girls want a guy that can &$% good....pardon the language but it's the damned truth...If you have confidence and give the impression that you know how to get down with your bad self, then you will get their attention.

Be cocky, arrogant, and treat all women like shit. Even your mom. (joke! being a little cocky will do just fine.)

If you walk around all day feeling sorry for yourself and moping around they aren't going to want anything to do with you.

So seriously, have confidence stupid.

Just like my dad used to say. "if you $^&% them good enough they'll never forget you."

Let me cut the "I want to bang a bimbo" melodrama and tell you what the real problem is. It's not that I am shallow, it's not that I am immature, it's not that I don't have confidence, ok maybe I don't, but that's probably not the real issue here, and it's not that I am overly unattractive, I know that because I have not been overweight all my life and I know how different things were back then.

The problem is that I was shy enough before I came here, and now that I am here it's even worse. The moment I utter a word out of my mouth I see the smiles in the faces of the people I talk to slowly fade. Pretty depressing, isn't it? Yes, it is depressing. It's not that I have a speech impediment, but it's pretty darn close, and no one here will ever understand because no one here is in my shoes.

 

[Lex Luthor]

Let me cut the "I want to bang a bimbo" melodrama and tell you what the real problem is. It's not that I am shallow, it's not that I am immature, it's not that I don't have confidence, ok maybe I don't, but that's probably not the real issue here, and it's not that I am overly unattractive, I know that because I have not been overweight all my life and I know how different things were back then.

The problem is that I was shy enough before I came here, and now that I am here it's even worse. The moment I utter a word out of my mouth I see the smiles in the faces of the people I talk to slowly fade. Pretty depressing, isn't it? Yes, it is depressing. It's not that I have a speech impediment, but it's pretty darn close, and no one here will ever understand because no one here is in my shoes.

You need to see a licensed therapist, in my opinion. Nobody here can help you with your seemingly complicated predicament.

edit: It also seems like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me. You expect to shun away others, and so you inadvertently cause it to happen. And lose the depressed view, nobody likes being anywhere near a person who's a downer. Just be more optimistic.

 

[SimonomiS]

...I see the smiles in the faces of the people I talk to...

Too much time on the internet.

 

[Reaktor4]

ever consider a prostitute?

when you consider that men effectively 'pay' to get sex anyway, the fact that you are spending money isn't such a lowly act. men can give up far much more dignity paying in the form of time, compromised behaviour, and of course money(to pay for dates). and in the end for them its mostly about sex anyway.

my point is, every female is a hooker!

thats a good point

 

[Lex Luthor]

thats a good point

Yeah but when you treat a women to a movie or a restaurant, you're entertaining yourself also. You have problems if you're only doing that for her sake. And by the way, only suckers or losers have to pay for sex. End of story.

 

[evil^milk]

is that sigmund freud on your avatar?

segs.

 

[Lex Luthor]

is that sigmund freud on your avatar?

segs.

who? 6char

 

[Reaktor4]

Yeah but when you treat a women to a movie or a restaurant, you're entertaining yourself also. You have problems if you're only doing that for her sake. And by the way, only suckers or losers have to pay for sex. End of story.

i dont think he was being entirely serious

 

[Greatgat]

who? 6char

You know, kill your father so you can sleep with your mother? Not my favorite idea, by the way.:x

 

[Lex Luthor]

You know, kill your father so you can sleep with your mother? Not my favorite idea, by the way.:x

I know perfectly well who Freud is, but I was wondering whose avatar he is referring to.

 

[RakuraiTenjin]

Dgenatron, do you know a Tony Taylor (ASU, think he'll be a Sophomore this year, tall black guy, cowboyish but not hick type)

 

[evil^milk]

I know perfectly well who Freud is, but I was wondering whose avatar he is referring to.

i was referring to yours, but i think it isn't... or i dunno lol

 

[Lex Luthor]

i was referring to yours, but i think it isn't... or i dunno lol

Haha my avatar is a pic of Theodore Roosevelt Jr., 26th President of the USA. :cheers:

 

[Greatgat]

Haha my avatar is a pic of Theodore Roosevelt Jr., 26th President of the USA. :cheers:

Ah yes. "Speak softly and carry a big stick" guy. Fun stuff.

 

[Dgenatron]

It also seems like a self-fulfilling prophecy to me. You expect to shun away others, and so you inadvertently cause it to happen.

If it weren't because every now and then I try to be friendlier and nicer to people, and I still see the disappointment in their faces, I would be more inclined to believe what you are telling me. I have thought about that before and I have concluded that that is not the case, because the outcome is so discouraging that there is no possible way on earth I would be martyring myself on purpose. I pinpointed the cause of the problem to an inherit problem in my persona. Either that, or the American collective is truly ****ed up.

 

[Skaadi]

I'm a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!