Non-Sequitur
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Probably a really stupid forum to talk about this in, but hey I'm not thinking that straight right now. Here's the question: have you ever been in a long distance relationship, and if not, would you ever bother with one?
The girl I loved moved far, far away from me and we promised to keep contact everyday... and we did up until the past couple of weeks. Well, that was 6 months wasted as of course, I have walked away very hurt as she is now with a guy that is twice my age, and is completely out of my reach. Even if I went running after her, things wouldn't have changed. I'm just so down at the moment, and I'm finding it hard to see past all this. But I guess, better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all? Sadly I still care about her and love her. I'm just in a bad mindset and I'm ultra depressed.
Words of advice? Don't ever bother with a long distance relationship. It's not worth the stress or the trouble. Find someone close that you know will always be able to be with you. And if you do end up in a LD relationship and somehow make it work, well, you did something I couldn't.
The girl I loved moved far, far away from me and we promised to keep contact everyday... and we did up until the past couple of weeks. Well, that was 6 months wasted as of course, I have walked away very hurt as she is now with a guy that is twice my age, and is completely out of my reach. Even if I went running after her, things wouldn't have changed. I'm just so down at the moment, and I'm finding it hard to see past all this. But I guess, better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all? Sadly I still care about her and love her. I'm just in a bad mindset and I'm ultra depressed.
Words of advice? Don't ever bother with a long distance relationship. It's not worth the stress or the trouble. Find someone close that you know will always be able to be with you. And if you do end up in a LD relationship and somehow make it work, well, you did something I couldn't.