Sorry, depressing thread dont read if you dont know me.

[Burn]

My dads in hospital, he broke his leg afew days ago. Having canser this is a big deal, he had an op, but the hospitall doesnt think he will live. unless we get very lucky. Just wanted to post here as I know afew people would be interested. leave whatever msg you want here, if I dont come back to reply, you can understand why.

 

[The Monkey]

So sorry to hear that Ritz, I really am.

 

[h00dlum]

Thats horrible, i really feel for you and your family!

 

[Tr0n]

Wow...sorry to hear that.

I know this may sound all christian like, but god bless ya.

 

[CptStern]

My dads in hospital, he broke his leg afew days ago. Having canser this is a big deal, he had an op, but the hospitall doesnt think he will live. unless we get very lucky. Just wanted to post here as I know afew people would be interested. leave whatever msg you want here, if I dont come back to reply, you can understand why.

my condolences

my dad went through a very dangerous operation a few years back (brain aneurism) so I can relate ...it was tough seeing him so close to death for 3 long months but he eventually got better ...but it doesnt end there ...he's getting progressively worse over the last couple of years ...I keep thinking every phone call late at night will be my mom saying the worst has happened. To top it off my aunt (my second mom) is just as sick, has all kinds of medical problems ...also my son was born pre-mature ...so I've spent the better part of the last 5 years in and out of hospital

there's nothing really that anyone can say to help you ...you need your family (friends are little help) ..but for gods sakes talk to someone, going it alone will only make it worse

 

[Garfield_]

If someone in my family died in canser, i dont know what i would do, nothing i could ever imagine. Im sorry to hear that Ritz, all i, we can do is to hope for the best. I hate when these things happen.

 

[Shippi]

I'm sorry Ritz

 

[el Chi]

Only so much to say really:
It's a terrible shame, and I can only wish the best to you, your dad and all your family. Honestly, wish you the best.

 

[The Mullinator]

Not much can be said aside from how sorry I am.

There is another girl I am friends with right now whose mother has cancer and only has around a month to live.

I just hope you and the rest of your family will make it through this should the worst occur.

 

[Jangle]

thats terrible, im sorry

 

[jimbo118]

feel for you,my dad had cancer too,didnt come through though he had pancreatic and later liver so he had no chance tbh.i hope your dad gets better

 

[Fat Tony!]

Ritz, thats sad, I hope you get the news your looking for. Make sure you get to spend to quality moments with your dad whilst you can

 

[Razor]

I agree with Cpt Stern, the words of a few people who know you on the internet can only help so much so talk to other members of your family, they will be going through exactly the same as what you're going through so don't bottle it up.

 

[Ames]

My condolences for you and your family.

 

[DEATH eVADER]

All of us are here for you, my condolences

 

[Ennui]

that's so depressing. I'm sooo, soo sorry. as utterly empty as my words over the internet are, my greatest condolences.

 

[B-MAn]

Woah i'm feel for you Ritz. A little prayer from me goes out to you ;(

 

[joule]

;(

I shed a tear for your father. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Hope everything only gets better.

 

[ship]

I'm so sorry, Ritz. ;(
He'll be in my prayers tonight.

 

[jverne]

my condolences

my dad went through a very dangerous operation a few years back (brain aneurism) so I can relate ...it was tough seeing him so close to death for 3 long months but he eventually got better ...but it doesnt end there ...he's getting progressively worse over the last couple of years ...I keep thinking every phone call late at night will be my mom saying the worst has happened. To top it off my aunt (my second mom) is just as sick, has all kinds of medical problems ...also my son was born pre-mature ...so I've spent the better part of the last 5 years in and out of hospital

there's nothing really that anyone can say to help you ...you need your family (friends are little help) ..but for gods sakes talk to someone, going it alone will only make it worse

Well, at least your old enough to take care for yourself (30 right?). Losing a father at 16+ must be really awful!

my condolences to you too ritz

 

[ComradeBadger]

My best wishes for you and your dad.

 

[CptStern]

Well, at least your old enough to take care for yourself (30 right?). Losing a father at 16+ must be really awful!

my condolences to you too ritz

I didnt realise he was so young ...doesnt make the hurt feel any less intense


tough times Ritz, seek help

 

[Dalamari]

Oh my god, all my thoughts and prayers to your family man

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

All my words will seem cheap, so I'm hesitant to even say anything, but...

I've got to say, that being with your family and your father is important, but at the same time friends are there for the lows as well as the highs. I know that when a couple of my friends went through the same thing you're going through, all they wanted was me to be there with them even though I honestly didn't know what to say. They told me later, that having someone to be with who wasn't a part of the situation helped them a lot.

So I suppose just talk about it. Say whatever you're feeling because getting it out in the open helps you to stop dwelling on it.

 

[oldagerocker]

Now i feel sad i hope he pulls through Ritz. If he doesn't, im sorry we're all here for you.

 

[lePobz]

There's not much anyone can say to help you through this, but my heart goes out to you and your family. Don't lock anything up inside, try to stay strong, and remember you've got the thoughts and best wishes of a lot of people right here.

 

[baxter]

Sorry for you in these uncertain and unhappy times, best wishes hope all goes well.

 

[Burn]

Hes gone. It was not much of a shock, I didnt think he would be coming back from the place so Ive cried and got myself together before my mom came back to tell me, Im sure as hell not looking forward to the next few weeks. Thanks for your kinds words.

 

[Farrowlesparrow]

Ritz I wish I could be there for you. I genuinly do, no matter how little I know you

But you're a strong person, and your life will go on.

 

[baxter]

You have my deepest genuine sympathy.
Sorry for your loss.Take care.

 

[Ames]

I'm not sure what to say.

There's no words that can describe what you have just gone through.

I hope everything goes well for you and your family.

 

[AntiAnto]

I don't really know you, but if I can say one thing is that I'm really sorry for you. Don't let down and be strong. I've recently lost someone that I loved, and trust me, I know she stays on me and watchs me going.

 

[kaf11]

very sorry to hear. my condolences for you and your family.

 

[jimbo118]

Hes gone. It was not much of a shock, I didnt think he would be coming back from the place so Ive cried and got myself together before my mom came back to tell me, Im sure as hell not looking forward to the next few weeks. Thanks for your kinds words.

aw jesus,im sorry,im pretty shocked,brings it back abit for me,my dad passed on when i was 15,5 years ago,i thought i might be able to give you some help given i've experienced it but each person grieves in there own way you know,im very sorry...

 

[<RJMC>]

maybe I dont know you but my condolences for you and your family

 

[Shakermaker]

dear Ritz, take care. my condolences to you and your loved ones.

 

[CrazyHarij]

Even though I have been lucky enough not to experience anything of this nature, a very dear friend to me lost his father in a similar way, it was very painful.

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

 

[Sparta]

Stay tough Ritz, sorry to hear about that, but words dont mean anything right now. I'm sorry, even though you dont know me nor I know you. I've lost people that i've loved to suicide and it sucks. Just try to stay strong.

 

[bryanf445]

hey all of us are praying for you man

 

[Zeus]

Sorry to hear the sad news, I can relate because something similar to this happened a couple months ago to my grandmother. She was in the hospital bed, said goodbye to her family, then passed away right after she said goodbye..very tragic I know because it has happened to me with 2 family members hope you get through these tragic times as well...

Also I would suggest not posting here for the next few weeks, you need some time to talk with your family not some people you don't know on a public forum.