I have social problems (with girls). Is this normal or do I need professional help?

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Pesmerga said:
He doesn't have any friends. And lacks will power to make friends. And lacks will power to improve his will power.

Spoiler.

He is going to die a virgin.

what a great way to bring him down even more lol
 
madog said:
what a great way to bring him down even more lol

Its true though. He lacks the willpower to improve himself.
 
And maybe with all this negative feedback, he'll try and prove us wrong.

Which is what I do for people, even if it seems a bit harsh to others.
 
15357 said:
Its true though. He lacks the willpower to improve himself.

ya he shud at least do somthing useful with his life though, any suggestions as to what?
 
The Builder shall smite thee! Improve thyself or suffer the conseqences.
 
15357 said:
The Builder shall smite thee! Improve thyself or suffer the conseqences.

Huh? Who do you think you are? Jesus Christ?
 
Thief: The Dark Project, The metal age, Deadly shadows....


btw, "Improve thyself or suffer the conseqences." wasn't in them.
 
15357 said:
Thief: The Dark Project, The metal age, Deadly shadows....


btw, "Improve thyself or suffer the conseqences." wasn't in them.[/QU

Oh well you made your point anyway, but chances are this guy will just suffer
 
15357 said:
Obviously you haven't played the thief series.

I'VE never played the thief series. Look: I respect the type of game that can offer you the choice between stealth and al out, gun's blazing kind of gameplay. I even admire those that stealth is the principal way to win (i.e. Splinter Cell, Thief, Metal Gear). I just don't thing those defy me as a person. I like to run in screaming defiantly and hope for the God-Awful best.

Just saying though. Actually, that kind of tied into the thread...

Listen! You need to run in and before she has a chance to react, snap her neck like a dry twig! Don't f*ck around!
 
Greatgat said:
I'VE never played the thief series. Look: I respect the type of game that can offer you the choice between stealth and al out, gun's blazing kind of gameplay. I even admire those that stealth is the principal way to win (i.e. Splinter Cell, Thief, Metal Gear). I just don't thing those defy me as a person. I like to run in screaming defiantly and hope for the God-Awful best.

Just saying though. Actually, that kind of tied into the thread...

Listen! You need to run in and before she has a chance to react, snap her neck like a dry twig! Don't f*ck around!

ya me too. I like just going in with the mondo guns and the invulnerability and just wasting everyone including the civilians or anything living
 
Pesmerga said:
And maybe with all this negative feedback, he'll try and prove us wrong.

Which is what I do for people, even if it seems a bit harsh to others.
I thought you were a troll


Let me tell you something, this is something I haven't mentioned yet. I didn't want to mention it because it is embarassing, but it is my duty to be honest if I want some help. Do you remember that kid who went around smiling and trying to be friendly but people shunned him anyway? I am that kid. I have tried. Let me emphasize that. I HAVE TRIED. But I have met a lot of mean people along the way, who quickly vanished the smile in my face. I made an effort to be friendly but they SHUNNED me, do I want to be humiliated? No. Very sad right? That's the story of my life.
 
kngHenry said:
I thought you were a troll


Let me tell you something, this is something I haven't mentioned yet. I didn't want to mention it because it is embarassing, but it is my duty to be honest if I want some help. Do you remember that kid who went around smiling and trying to be friendly but people shunned him anyway? I am that kid. I have tried. Let me emphasize that. I HAVE TRIED. But I have met a lot of mean people along the way, who quickly vanished the smile in my face. I made an effort to be friendly but they SHUNNED me, do I want to be humiliated? No. Very sad right? That's the story of my life.

....................

;(
 
kngHenry said:
I thought you were a troll


Let me tell you something, this is something I haven't mentioned yet. I didn't want to mention it because it is embarassing, but it is my duty to be honest if I want some help. Do you remember that kid who went around smiling and trying to be friendly but people shunned him anyway? I am that kid. I have tried. Let me emphasize that. I HAVE TRIED. But I have met a lot of mean people along the way, who quickly vanished the smile in my face. I made an effort to be friendly but they SHUNNED me, do I want to be humiliated? No. Very sad right? That's the story of my life.


oh come on you're reading far too much into things ...not everybody's going to like you ...in my experience a complete stranger smiling at you means he's either crazy or wants to pick you up ...the odd time that person may just be just friendly but in public it's best to be on your guard. Last time I smiled at someone in the subway, he got up sat next to me and went on and on as to why he thinks jesus loves me



I hate to say it, but I'd really like to shake you forcibly, give you a light slap and say "SNAP OUT OF IT AND STOP WHINING!"

we all go through these sorts of emotions, seems to me like you have a harder time dealing with them ....that's why you need professional help
 
CptStern said:
oh come on you're reading far too much into things ...not everybody's going to like you ...

I want EVERYBODY to like me ;)

I hate to say it, but I'd really like to shake you forcibly, give you a light slap and say "SNAP OUT OF IT AND STOP WHINING!"

Thanks...

we all go through these sorts of emotions, seems to me like you have a harder time dealing with them ....that's why you need professional help

I guess I am traumatized.
 
you're too much of a defeatist ...you say you want help but I dont think you really do ...to an extent. You're looking for an easy fix or a quick answer but it just doesnt exist. Physchoanalysis is a long drawn out process but it is the only way some people get the help they need. I think you're beyond self-help and should be consulting a psychiatrist
 
I would agree, a psycartist could do you alot of good.
 
Ok, I got some suggestions for your problem:

1. Quit being a pussy, that tends to help.
2. Hang out at bars and get drunk so that way you won't have to "play games."
3. Quit being such a pussy.
4. Once you stop being such a pussy bang the shit out of bitches.

Plus, if you're drunk as piss you won't know they're really all that ugly but you kick em out in the morning anyway.

P.S. - Quit being a pussy you pussy.
 
Pressure said:
Ok, I got some suggestions for your problem:

1. Quit being a pussy, that tends to help.
2. Hang out at bars and get drunk so that way you won't have to "play games."
3. Quit being such a pussy.
4. Once you stop being such a pussy bang the shit out of bitches.

Plus, if you're drunk as piss you won't know they're really all that ugly but you kick em out in the morning anyway.

P.S. - Quit being a pussy you pussy.

Oh but I don't drink.... If it was your kids who did not drink they would be virtuous, but because it's me the one who does not drink, I must be abnormal.
 
He never said anything about relationships he just wants to **** the shit out of some hot chicks. First he needs to quit being a whiney little pussy and complaining all the time. Second he needs to get out there and hit up some bars. Third he needs to bring home some drunk chick and **** her brains out then tell her to leave. If you go to her house just **** her there and leave by saying, "Oh yeah, I have something I gotta do in a little while."

Quit being a pussy and quit complaining about being a pussy and you might stop being a pussy.
 
kngHenry said:
Oh but I don't drink.... If it was your kids who did not drink they would be virtuous, but because it's me the one who does not drink, I must be abnormal.
Who said anything about drinking, get them drunk and **** em.
 
ok you've had 15 pages and you're still whining that everyone else is the problem...im all for helping but you're pissing me off now.

You constantly ignore what people are telling you or trying to help you with. Thats the attitude that has gotten you to where you are. If you believe you have something that is worth sharing, others seem to feel the same. I have seen some people I thought would never get anywhere but they have. One guy, really overweight and annoying (i thought) scored with the hottest girl at my school - 800 people there, half girls and this guy comes out on top).

ITS YOUR ATTITUDE! you say your friends arent around, you need to make more - get out and show the world what you have (not what you've shown us or you'll be where you are).

Im surprised the flaming hasnt started to be honest, we can all say the same thing only so many ways...And its heading towards flaming after seeing page 14 where 3 people just talked to each other...15 pages of advice, you'd think you'd have learned something...And some have tried to be blunt as well.

ITS ALL UP TO YOU! DO SOMETHING!
 
kngHenry said:
Oh but I don't drink.... If it was your kids who did not drink they would be virtuous, but because it's me the one who does not drink, I must be abnormal.


no ....but you do have a persecution complex
 
He's a whiney blubbering pussy. He comes out saying he wants to **** hot chicks but he just wants to sit at home and have them come to him. When people give himm advice he calls them idiots and then goes back to how much of a pussy he is. He's so much so a pussy that he can't even go out and have a one night stand with some random chick, which is what he wants to do and could do if he wasn't such a stupid pussy. I say **** him he isn't ever going to **** anyone.
 
Pressure said:
He never said anything about relationships he just wants to **** the shit out of some hot chicks.

I have never seen any action so either one would be fine.
 
Then go to a bar and hook up with some chick, you don't even need to drink. It's that easy.
 
Pressure said:
Then go to a bar and hook up with some chick, you don't even need to drink. It's that easy.

And a drunken chick won't care about my physical appearance, personality and speech impediments?
 
kngHenry said:
And a drunken chick won't care about my physical appearance, personality and speech impediments?

Nope cuz shes messed up too. Everyones messed up. THIS WHOLE WORLD IS INSANE! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!
 
madog said:
Nope cuz shes messed up too. Everyones messed up. THIS WHOLE WORLD IS INSANE! AHHHHHHHHHHHH!

I know I am naive when it comes to women, but I know this: if you go to a bar and you don't drink something alcoholic, people (sober and otherwise) will avoid you. I know it is ****ed up, but that's the way it is. It's not my fault people think that way.
 
kngHenry said:
I know I am naive when it comes to women, but I know this: if you go to a bar and you don't drink something alcoholic, people (sober and otherwise) will avoid you. I know it is ****ed up, but that's the way it is. It's not my fault people think that way.

Well then uh, then do sumthin with your non-girl life. Become a priest or sumthin. At least you won't go to hell, as long as you don't molest children.
 
madog said:
Well then uh, then do sumthin with your non-girl life. Become a priest or sumthin. At least you won't go to hell, as long as you don't molest children.

So I will go to hell if I have premarital sex?
 
kngHenry said:
So I will go to hell if I have premarital sex?

Um, last time I checked the Bible, it's not really advised but do what ever you want. You may or may not, I'm not God though. I bet there's some kind of point system He uses or whatever. But I'm waiting, or so i think, or so I try.
 
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