Is my dad cheating on my mom?

[jimbo118]

It is time

 

[<RJMC>]

Whats with this " don't get involved" shit?.

He's their son, it ****ing involves him.


I say gather more proof, follow him a bit, and confront him, **** that cowardly don't get involved crap, your dad is cheating on your mum, ****ing call him out on it.

yes he should be involved,instead of waiting who wins the custody

 

[Ravioli]

When i woke up today i heard that they were arguing in the living room, my mom was confronting him about wtf he was doing during the night, i couldnt hear what my dad responded with though. Awkward morning, but once its just me and my dad in the house i will confront him myself, i wont accuse him of anything, i will just tell him i know something is going on and that he cant lie anymore, and see where that takes me. I will also talk to my mom to see what they were arguing about.

oh, and no shes not fat and ugly, both of my parents are over 50 though so they arent the most pleasant to look at lol. But my mom has given everything for my dad, without her, we wouldnt last a single week. I dont think my dad understands what she has done for him, and what would happen if he looses her.

if i stop posting on these forums, its because i probably found out hes an agent for a super secret organization and he had to kill me.

 

[Anthraxxx]

Call Joey Grecco of Cheaters and be on the show.

 

[Sulkdodds]

Dad's not a super secret agent or a mafioso or anything. If he was, he'd be a damn sight better at hiding his activities. Unless...he wants confrontation!

 

[Azner]

When i woke up today i heard that they were arguing in the living room, my mom was confronting him about wtf he was doing during the night, i couldnt hear what my dad responded with though. Awkward morning, but once its just me and my dad in the house i will confront him myself, i wont accuse him of anything, i will just tell him i know something is going on and that he cant lie anymore, and see where that takes me. I will also talk to my mom to see what they were arguing about.

oh, and no shes not fat and ugly, both of my parents are over 50 though so they arent the most pleasant to look at lol. But my mom has given everything for my dad, without her, we wouldnt last a single week. I dont think my dad understands what she has done for him, and what would happen if he looses her.

if i stop posting on these forums, its because i probably found out hes an agent for a super secret organization and he had to kill me.

Not the mafia or the super wedding anniversary?

 

[SpiderPig]

Follow him and take pics.

 

[Omnomnick]

Tell him you know something is going on, he might just break down.

If not, investigate further.

 

[Baal]

Depending on the type of person he is, you may not want to try to tell him what to do, or confront him angrily. Just telling him that you know something is going on may be enough, but what about playing to his heart? Come up with some sappy manipulative drivel that will really make him see the potential consequences of what he is doing - hurting the ones he loves.

Work on your puppy dog face; blubbering like a baby; watery eyes...

 

[VirusType2]

I have come up with 2 possible scenarios, though I'm just throwing this out there. I'm not suggesting you take the advice or ignore it.

#1 is simple:
Either you or your mother tell him you know what is going on. He's going to have to make a decision. End the affair or end his marriage. He can't have both.


#2

Mom hires a private investigator OR gathers evidence on her own.

use the evidence in court.

divorce

mother gets a lot of money. alimony + child support + half 'his' stuff.

There are more benefits, like not having a cheating husband, and being able to date people who wouldn't do such a thing.

 

[hool10]

Your mom isn't putting out enough in bed. Tell her to perform better. Hope that helps.

-hool10

Spoiler

What?!? Somebody had to do it. Sorry Rav for what's going on though.

 

[The_E]

send a e mail to him with only this " I KNOW " and see how he reacts.Tap his phone.I am 99.9% sure he is cheating.Sorry bro

 

[theotherguy]

Well, I'd say the first thing you should definitely do is post a long-winded explanation on the internet for everyone in the world to see. Scratch that, make sure its a gaming website full of 17-30 year old males.

That is the best course of action.

 

[_Z_Ryuken]

Hey, we need entertainment, too.

 

[Krynn72]

Well, I'd say the first thing you should definitely do is post a long-winded explanation on the internet for everyone in the world to see. Scratch that, make sure its a gaming website full of 17-30 year old males.

That is the best course of action.

Well obviously he had sense enough to do that first, but hes asking what to do next.

 

[Nomad]

Punch the mother****er in the face and tell him to end being a superhero. Villany is where it's at.

 

[Cpt Tenacious]

tl;dr

 

[Mech Man]

Wait till he goes out , then sit in a chair with all the lights off. Then wait till he gets in and turns the light on and he finds you sitting there and he will be all "omgwtfbbq whuts goinz awn here?!" and you will be all "tell me where you have been" (dont forget to sound like you mean buisness) and hopefully he will tell you everything. At least this is what TV has told me how it works.

If that fails just tell him that hes in deep horse manuer if he doesnt come clean. And dont forget to tell him you can take it to court (even if you have no intention of doing so). Although that could really screw up if it turns out he isnt doing anything...

 

[VirusType2]

Your mom isn't putting out enough in bed. Tell her to perform better. Hope that helps.

-hool10

You shit.

Honestly, if he is cheating, it's usually an infatuation with someone at work.

 

[63]

Turn him over to me, and he will fulfill his destiny. He will not know the true power of the Dark Side until he is at my side.

 

[_Z_Ryuken]

Wait till he goes out , then sit in a chair with all the lights off. Then wait till he gets in and turns the light on and he finds you sitting there and he will be all "omgwtfbbq whuts goinz awn here?!" and you will be all "tell me where you have been" (dont forget to sound like you mean buisness) and hopefully he will tell you everything. At least this is what TV has told me how it works.

Don't forget to sit in a spinny chair so when he comes in you turn around slowly with your fingers steeped (pointing up like Mr. Burns, excellent.).

 

[DEATH eVADER]

That or he is going out to do his fantasy baseball draft. (cookies to whoever guess what that's from)

Brewster's Million

I personally think he's smoking weed, or replaced by an alien

 

[Krynn72]

Sorry Krynn old buddy, but this is entirely laughable. The thought of a son telling his father what to do ("I'm TELLING you to stop") is just...man, you came from his balls, dude. How the hell are YOU going to tell HIM to do anything? It might make you feel mad, might make you ashamed and angry at his actions (and sons are protective of their mothers' feelings as well), but seriously if my son ever came up demanding me to do anything, he'd get a reality check real fast.

Unless Rav's still a kid in highschool, I doubt it would be anything like you say. A fully grown adult in your family telling you that you're ****ing up the family, whether hes your son or not, you would take seriously. I dont know what kind of family you come from, but in my family, and most families I know of, people respect each other. That "i made you, I can destroy you" crap doesnt really happen, and if it does then that person is lame as hell and needs to get his ass kicked by his younger, more fit, and completely justified offspring. If my dad was putting the family at risk of breaking up, I'd sure as hell face him, whether he thought I had the right to or not.

 

[nurizeko]

Dad's not a super secret agent or a mafioso or anything. If he was, he'd be a damn sight better at hiding his activities. Unless...he wants confrontation!

Genius.

Set it up so he has appeared to been having an affair, causing a complete split from his family life (cover) and then disappear.





Pure genius.

 

[Raziaar]

The real question is, "Is blackmail possible?"

 

[AJ Rimmer]

Sorry Krynn old buddy, but this is entirely laughable. The thought of a son telling his father what to do ("I'm TELLING you to stop") is just...man, you came from his balls, dude. How the hell are YOU going to tell HIM to do anything? It might make you feel mad, might make you ashamed and angry at his actions (and sons are protective of their mothers' feelings as well), but seriously if my son ever came up demanding me to do anything, he'd get a reality check real fast.

Wow, that is quite impressive bullshit. If my dad ever pulled anything like that, effectively throwing 40 years or married life in the crapper, I'd be screaming at the top of my lungs at him, and I'm pretty sure I'd be flanked by my brother and sister (Or rather my sister and I would be flanking my brother). I'm a grown man, I stand up to my father when he's in the wrong, and cheating on his wife is very much being in the wrong.

 

[Jintor]

I am sooooo glad I have a mostly stable family. ;___;

 

[Rizzo]

If your parants have gotten to the point where they don't love each other anymore, and feel the need to break up, who are you to step in becouse your family balance is in danger.

Seriously, your not a kid anymore. Your an adult. Let your parents sort it out.

If you however have a stepdad or the other, kick his/her ass for cheating on your parent.

 

[Azner]

The real question is, "Is blackmail possible?"

Go stalk dad and find out what hes doing, blackmail him. Tell mum you know what dad is doing, but for a price. Rat dad out and run away. Thrid step of run away is only possible if you manage to blackmail half of their life savings each.

 

[Jintor]

If your parants have gotten to the point where they don't love each other anymore, and feel the need to break up, who are you to step in becouse your family balance is in danger.

"Why should I save my parent's marriage? It's their marriage. Who am I to try and deal with something that affects me?"

 

[99.vikram]

yes he should be involved,instead of waiting who wins the custody

This.

Step 1: Get proof somehow. Hire a professional if you have to. Besides, if you're the only one who knows, he can intimidate you.

Step 2: Confront him in front of some third party, with the proof so he can't just storm out of the room.

This is exactly what I would do to anyone who betrayed my confidence. Make sure he cannot project himself as the good guy.

None of your business my arse. This man is f*cking around with your mother. He broke a vow he made to her.
You have a responsibility to her, since she isn't ready to do sh*t about it.

 

[Acepilotf14]

Follow him with a camera and get proof.

 

[Krynn72]

"Why should I save my parent's marriage? It's their marriage. Who am I to try and deal with something that affects me?"

Not only that, but cheating on your wife/husband is not breaking up. Its being a deceptive piece of shit who is acting completely selfishly. If they're going to break up after so many years of marriage, be ****ing civil about it and discuss it. Dont go out to shitty motel rooms with some trollop and tell your wife and children that you're at work.

 

[Stigmata]

Especially if she plasters on the makeup like a trollop, you c*nt.

 

[Bad^Hat]

Especially if she plasters on the makeup like a trollop, you c*nt.

Ah McCain, you've done it again.

 

[lame-o]

Yes he is cheating on you.

 

[Eejit]

Do you think your dad still loves your mum?

 

[Rizzo]

Not only that, but cheating on your wife/husband is not breaking up. Its being a deceptive piece of shit who is acting completely selfishly. If they're going to break up after so many years of marriage, be ****ing civil about it and discuss it. Dont go out to shitty motel rooms with some trollop and tell your wife and children that you're at work.

Yeah okay, I guess your right.

 

[nurizeko]

Do you think your dad still loves your mum?

Not enough it seems.


Maybe its a thing most guys cant help, but I just cant see the point.

If your that horny take your wife out for a nice meal and tumble into a bed together, or hell, whip out yer hand and ****ing service yourself you sad bastard but cheating on a woman you've married and had children with is just ****ing pathetic.



Real love implies you don't want anyone else.

 

[highlander]

Not enough it seems.


Maybe its a thing most guys cant help, but I just cant see the point.

If your that horny take your wife out for a nice meal and tumble into a bed together, or hell, whip out yer hand and ****ing service yourself you sad bastard but cheating on a woman you've married and had children with is just ****ing pathetic.



Real love implies you don't want anyone else.

Best thing I've read in a while.