Are you romantic?

Raziaar said:
Bah. I'm not talking about in a fledgling relationship! I'm talking about between two lovers. You don't like your lover touching you?

I dunno, maybe its a private/personal space issue. I wouldn't try that stuff until I knew the person was comfortable and enjoyed it.
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Not really, i just cant stand being touched.
 
Skaadi said:
Not really, i just cant stand being touched.
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Well. Thats an ENTIRELY different matter. I can see why you'd hate that idea now. Personally I find it weird even if you felt that way to a loved one, but i'm not gonna judge.

I just feel the need to defend romance here for some reason.

I'm like a bastion of romance! <laughs>


Kidding... but its kinda funny. I'm so tired i'm not even thinking straight anymore.
 
Skaadi said:
Not really, i just cant stand being touched.
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lol Skaadi, eventually your instincts and hormones will kick in and you won't be able to help yourself. It happens to the best of us.
 
Nat Turner said:
lol Skaadi, eventually your instincts and hormones will kick in and you won't be able to help yourself. It happens to the best of us.
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Not me....I aint like you people :P

It doesnt have anything to do with hormones not kicking in or something like that, it makes me want to take a bath afterward. Even if its just someone tapping me on the arm.
 
Skaadi said:
Not me....I aint like you people :P
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Unless you had a traumatic childhood or something else that messed you up (which I doubt because you're always uncannily sane), it definitely will. You can't stop your biology.
 
Nat Turner said:
Unless you had a traumatic childhood or something else that messed you up (which I doubt because you're always uncannily sane), it definitely will. You can't stop your biology.
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Sane? Thats not nice :hmph: :D

I still doubt it, it makes me feel ill.
 
Nat Turner said:
No, romance has to have all that mystery and other bullshit. Also the man is expected to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars on pretty rocks (AKA diamonds) for the girl.
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That's not romance. Being romantic is not about material things or money. It's simply about care, respect, and the enjoyment of making someone else happy.
 
Skaadi said:
How so?
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Yeah you're one of the sanest people here( except for your freezing of books :p). You seem very open-minded, logical, and rational on just about every topic, especially for a girl. Most people I know are just a mess of confused thoughts and emotions, and don't really have a grip on the world. You do, on the other hand.

edit: I thought he was referring to 'sane' as unusual
 
Skaadi said:
How so?
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Well... Most humans are naturally pleasantly stimulated by being touched in a way that usually would be pleasing/arousing/sensual for them from a special, loved one. They might react by shivering, quivering, or anything inbetween, feeling tingles of pleasure. I guess an example I could give that i'm sure most people have experienced, is somebody massaging your scalp and running their fingers through your hair. Thats an INCREDIBLY enjoyable feeling, which would be akin to someone you like touching you(brushing their hand against your arm or something).
 
Nat Turner said:
Yeah you're one of the sanest people here( except for your freezing of books :p). You seem very open-minded, logical, and rational on just about every topic, especially for a girl. Most people I know are just a mess of confused thoughts and emotions, and don't really have a grip on the world. You do, on the other hand.
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Why thank you :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
 
Raziaar said:
Well... Most humans are naturally pleasantly stimulated by being touched in a way that usually would be pleasing/arousing/sensual for them from a special, loved one. They might react by shivering, quivering, or anything inbetween, feeling tingles of pleasure. I guess an example I could give that i'm sure most people have experienced, is somebody massaging your scalp and running their fingers through your hair. Thats an INCREDIBLY enjoyable feeling, which would be akin to someone you like touching you(brushing their hand against your arm or something).
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*shudders* :x :x :x
 
Raziaar said:
That's 3 too many smilies to be classified as sane.



<gasp> What!? Am I the ONLY one that finds things like this pleasing?
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Insane always works so well


So it seems :D
 
Well. We'll wait until others come on here and voice in on their opinion. Everybody I know loves the feeling. There's so many nerve endings up there that it 'should' feel pleasurable to anybody unless those nerve endings are damaged. With the exception of course of mental blockage.

I'm so tired, and am going to be going to bed. You all have a great day!
 
Raziaar said:
That's 3 too many smilies to be classified as sane.



<gasp> What!? Am I the ONLY one that finds things like this pleasing?
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Nope, I like touching women too. :naughty:
 
WTF Teta, did that guy in the video in your signature die?
 
I do the small things, like picnics *although when my girlfriend broke up with me when we were celebrating our 1 year aniversary together at a picnic..yeah..I'm done with those.

I don't see the things I can do to be romatic usually..it's hard for me. My dad is the least of all romantics..I get it from him :(
 
madog said:
I would be romantic if I had the chance to. Too bad women hate me. O well... sadistic bastards ftw!
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Me too.

*slits wrists*

I'm actually socially retarted according to doctors, I have friends but I'm socially retarted because I can't express myself with body language too good unless I think about it, this applys to subconsciously reading body language aswell and I just default to bad posture, not looking in people's eyes etc...
 
I took my girl to the beach for a ****ing picnic I made all myself (with chocolate cake) and then walked her to go visit the art gallery. Oh yeah, and I made her a Valentine's card with a rose that folded out.
 
I consider myself to be romantic, yeah. But only when it's needed. I used to be too romantic and it kinda scared the girls away because they didn't want me to be too attached to them.

Oh well. Got myself the best girlfriend now :) <3
 
Raziaar said:
* Raziaar smashes Skaadi's skull in with a brick using several brutal, powerful swings. It's dry, rough surface quickly becomes coated with the warm, sticky blood that oozes from her gaping wound. Satisfied, he drops it to the ground beside her so that the two can be at peace with one another for all eternity.
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Boom, headshot!

Oh, I'm pretty romantic I guess. I'm also part french.
 
I'm romantic and at the same time very timid. Girls likes that.
 
Everything Raziaar has said in this thread I agree with.

Somebody has to be the knight in shining armor. Personally, I enjoy the role. ;)
 
Skaadi said:
Not really, i just cant stand being touched.
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That is a mental condition, actually. Happens to not that many but still many people.

You'll grow out of it, according to the internets, m'lady.


Anyway, as the girls here are rather focused on studying than making boyfriends, I probably won't have the chance to be romantic until the age of 25.
 
Hell yeah I'm romantic :p
Romantic in every sense even :O (Monies-sense, Considerate-sense, Talking-sense, Sechs-sense)

I'm a hawt hawt luvin machine \0/
 
After I posted last night, I started thinking, and I realized that it all comes down to one thing: I LOVE girls. I don't just mean sex (sure, it's good fun, but there're better things in life) I mean girls. I love every thing about them. The way they seem fragile and yet are actually so completely strong, the way they're so complex and mysterious, the way they act, the way they do everything. I don't claim to understand them any more than the next guy, and I don't mean to sound like a freak or anything... I just love them :D
 
JNightshade said:
After I posted last night, I started thinking, and I realized that it all comes down to one thing: I LOVE girls. I don't just mean sex (sure, it's good fun, but there're better things in life) I mean girls. I love every thing about them. The way they seem fragile and yet are actually so completely strong, the way they're so complex and mysterious, the way they act, the way they do everything. I don't claim to understand them any more than the next guy, and I don't mean to sound like a freak or anything... I just love them :D
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YOU FREAK!


No, j/k :P. After reading your post, I think that I feel the same way too.
 
JNightshade said:
After I posted last night, I started thinking, and I realized that it all comes down to one thing: I LOVE girls. I don't just mean sex (sure, it's good fun, but there're better things in life) I mean girls. I love every thing about them. The way they seem fragile and yet are actually so completely strong, the way they're so complex and mysterious, the way they act, the way they do everything. I don't claim to understand them any more than the next guy, and I don't mean to sound like a freak or anything... I just love them :D
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Yeah, I know exactly what you mean.

J.D. Salinger said it like this:

I was half in love with her by the time we sat down. That's the thing about girls. Every time they do something pretty, even if they're not much to look at, or even if they're sort of stupid, you fall half in love with them, and then you never know where the hell you are. Girls. Jesus Christ. They can drive you crazy. They really can.
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Yeah. I think most straight men feel that way about them. It's a wonderful thing :D
 
JNightshade said:
Yeah. I think most straight men feel that way about them. It's a wonderful thing :D
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Yeah, it's almost like there's some sort of magical thing about girls. I don't know, it's hard to explain.
 
I'm a really romantic person. It's funny, I even once got a fortune cookie telling me so ("You are a true romantic"). :laugh: When I'm in love with someone, I'm prone to lots of affection and those cliche romantic things like preparing fancy dinners, surprise gifts or trips, doing meaningful things that're personal to the relationship, etc.

Funny thing is, sometimes I think I'd be happier just being a complete asshole to women. Like, having a significant other and ignoring her, treating her like dirt, pushing her away when she tries to get close physically, and being a total lockbox emotionally. Just to see how it goes. I've never tried it that way. You'd think it'd go badly, but I hear it's all the rage with women these days. Alas, I'm hardwired to be a nice guy.

Also, in before excessive flattery of a female forum member, OH WAI--

/me looks at Nat

I kid, I kid. :cheers:
 
lets see Ive never even had a gf so I guess that answers that question
 
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